The Feminist Mystique Essay

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During the 1960s the middle-class women of America were experiencing discontent in their lives partially due to the constrictions of tradition patriarchal marriage and this 1960s phenomenon began to be known as ‘the problem without a name’. Betty Friedan in The Feminist Mystique described the problem as “[The problem] lay buried, unspoken for many years in the mind of the American women. It was a strange stirring, a sense of dissatisfaction, a yearning that women suffered…[Afraid to ask herself] is this all?” (Friedan,15). Friedan’s quote shows that married middle-class women were all going through the same problem and were left questioning what was missing in their lives and their purpose as well. Both Mrs. Robinson in The Graduate (1967) After Sasha has her abortion Willy and she decide to have a baby, and they end up having a baby girl named Andy. Sasha realizes that Willy and she are no longer in the same world. Sasha begins to focus on Andy, while Willy continues to focus on his work. Sasha is obsessed with becoming the perfect mom, and her relationship with Willy is never the same because of it (Delikonstantinidou). The reader can infer that Sasha’s relationship with Andy is important to her because of her past abortion. The past abortion can make her appreciate her child on a level that Willy may not understand. Willy does not have to go through the abortion like Sasha does. Sasha sees her unborn fetus dead in a toilet and has to stay the night in the hospital by herself. During that night she does not get comfort by Willy and this may be the reason that she pushes away Willy when she has Andy. It also might be because Willy is just not as interested in Andy as much as Sasha is. Willy does not develop the same connection with his daughter that Sasha does because she is home with the baby all day. Willy barely gets to see his family because he always comes home late. This makes Sasha start to think that Willy is having an affair with a younger woman, and makes her realize that she is not as beautiful as she once was (Delikonstantinidou). Delikonstantinidou says that Sasha is, “Dissatisfied with her domestic life, disillusioned with her neglectful husband, and with the dreadful age of thirty upon her, …without any clear direction for the future.” This quote summarizes the idea that Sasha is trapped in a world that there is no possibility of finding happiness. Sasha cannot find happiness in a world that she does not have a purpose

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