Argumentative Essay On Marriage

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Marriage is a complicated topic and even more complicated when it ends in divorce. When entering a sacred union, such as a marriage, the person is entering uncharted water that can end up in happiness or divorce. For females in the 1900s, it became more of a chore than happiness. From an early age, the female mind has been trained, by their parents and society, to automatically take the role of a mother and a wife. Many married women understood that by marrying a man, they would have to understand the need of their husband as well as being the proper wife. However, married female did not expect their husbands to go to war in 1914 through 1918 and possibly again in 1939 through 1945. Due to the wars, some females became a widow and some marriages …show more content…

Marriage is defined as a union between two individuals who have committed themselves to each other due to love, compassion, and the acceptance of each others’ flaw. Levitt mentions that Thomas Augustus, author of As a Man Think, in Modern American Plays, explains that a healthy marriage is due to commitments and the concern of each other. Before being married, each person usually recites a vow, promising each other that they will be committed to one another and the take care of one another during sickness. Females understood that being married was very important in society. If a female is married, they are more respected than those that are married and divorced, even if they got divorced for their own safety. According to society, a female that is divorced is a female that is unwanted. Brookfield (2013) explains that couples had to go through class before and during the marriage when a problem had occurred just to prevent the marriage from ending in a divorce. Even today, counseling is required for Catholic couples before ending into a sacred union. Although …show more content…

During the 19th century (early 1920s), the divorce rates increased by every 1000 marriages, 6.6 of them ended in divorce. Until the end of WWII, divorce rates double every five years mainly due to the expectation of what a marriage is and the separation between a soldier and his wife. Separation between a newly married couple can cause distrust due to the distance. Most newly married wives expected the life of happiness and excitement, however, they did not expect to lose their husband to the war nor did they expect the abusive behavior, also known as PTSD, from soldiers coming home from the war, whether it ended or the soldier was honorably discharged due to an injury. In American, divorce rate skyrocketed mainly caused by many reasons, such as boredom, lying, money, overbearing personality, and the ignorance of sex. Even in today’s society, divorce can be cause by all of these reasons. However, after WWI, divorce rates increase to over seventeen percent. Although a married woman was never taught about sex until she wedded, the married woman being ignorance about sex can cause a divorce, blaming the married woman to be at fault. Another reason is seen mostly in wealthy society where a wife gets bored and files for divorce. Boredom is one of the biggest cause for marital failure. Although the married wives file for divorce due to boredom, she will less than likely to be ridiculed by

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