Essay On African Beauty

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Marriage and beauty concepts are complicated procedure in the West, namely the United States and Canada, where humans are responsible for deciding who they want to marry and build a life with and keeping their bodies in a form that is appeasing to the opposite sex. In the Western societies a couple must “love” each other in order for a marriage to work; yet, the West has a much higher divorced rate than in eastern societies. According to Frank Sinatra, love and marriage is like a horse and carriage—cannot have one without the other. However, in eastern societies a person does not marry for love, a person marriages and if their spouse is a “good” person, they will learn to love their spouse. A simple eastern motto for marriage would be— “Marry …show more content…

For instance, African women feel the need to have “lighter” skin and use skin-lightening products to appear lighter, which by default who cause them to look more Western. African women are also said to be “very vain” and do not appreciate natural beauty—spending an ample amount of time and money on beatifying themselves. However, not all Africans agree with the western concept of beauty. The Miss Diongoma Senegal beauty competition contest the Westernizing of beauty in Africa by having a competition that focuses on African beauty standards—such as plump figures, with large breast and legs, dark complexion, and braided hair. The pageant founders context the ideology that in order for someone to be considered beautiful they must be slim and light-skinned. They want to remind African women that being plump is beautiful and a sign of living well and wealth. Moreover, women in Africa are responsible for keeping their husbands sexually and mentally satisfied—and if they do not keep him satisfied with their marriage, then it is the wife’s fault if he looks elsewhere for …show more content…

This is quite different than Western ideology where most women feel that their greatest dreams have nothing to do with rendering children or finding a nice man to marry. Careers first and then marriage, maybe children (but more realistically in my case marriage and dogs). Despite the fact that marriage is not the first dream of most Western women—beauty and looking pleasant for the opposite sex is very important. Being slim with flawless skin is what Westerners perceive as beautiful, and that would be fine, every county has their own concepts of beauty; however, because the West, especially America, has become a super world power our concepts of love, marriage, and beauty are being to shift and shape other counties, which ultimately can lead to cultures changing

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