Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg

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In the American society, we constantly hear people make sure they say that a chief executive officer, a racecar driver, or an astronaut is female when they are so because that is not deemed as stereotypically standard. Sheryl Sandberg is the, dare I say it, female chief operating officer of Facebook while Mark Zuckerberg is the chief executive officer. Notice that the word “female” sounds much more natural in front of an executive position, but you would typically not add male in front of an executive position because it is just implied. The fact that most of America and the world makes this distinction shows that there are too few women leaders. In Sheryl Sandberg’s book “Lean In,” she explains why that is and what can be done to change that by discussing women, work, and the will to lead. In “Lean In,” Sheryl Sandberg makes a case for being ambitious in any pursuit. Although she pushes for women to take on leadership positions, she acknowledges that that is not what all women want. The message to women is to do what they love and dream big, create a path through the obstacles, and achieve their full potential. Throughout the book, she acknowledges three differences women need to make within themselves. Firstly, women need to “sit at the table,” or increase their self-confidence when surrounded by men. Women also need to make their partner a real partner by getting their oftentimes male partners to do more at home: splitting home responsibilities between spouses helps to make homes and marriages happier. Lastly, women need to not hold themselves to unattainable standards by believing the myth of doing it all. No one can literally do it all: they just have to focus on what really matters. Sandberg has women ask themselves, “What w... ... middle of paper ... ... teenager at that. She does not set unattainable standards and acknowledges that having it all is impossible. Quite frankly, I found her inspiring and motivating: the advice in her book super-charged my motivation to be whoever I want to be and gave me needed advice to apply throughout college and my future career. Because of its thought-provoking message, I highly recommend this book to anyone, male or female, whether they are passionate about gender equality or not. It is an eye opener to people from either side of the spectrum. The author does not rant about things without factual information and does not sound like a man-hating feminist. By taking a very objective stance and seeing things from both sides, it is an informative book that makes you think twice about external and internal biases. “Lean In” is inspiring and is written by an even more inspiring woman.

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