Emotional Intelligence: The Important Aspects Of Emotional Intelligence

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Emotional Intelligence: Emotional Intelligence (EI) is one of the quality that everyone requires in their professional career as well as personal life at any stage of life. Having controlled EI helps any one to reach the desired goals in career and to be well respected by the followers in the business world. To be remain calm and has ability to manage our emotions under pressure will have a direct link to our performance. In addition now a days hiring managers are likely making decisions based on testing high EI. Being open and transparent keeps the culture intact with EI controlled team members. Now a days I was attending many interviews, in each one of them behavioral questions has been mandatory and every interviewer is looking for to see on how one manages the stress and critical thinking. …show more content…

For these situations, I would like to use two techniques: One is distraction, where counting numbers one to ten that degrades the anger. I will use my humor or of a funny situation and also I know meditation. So I will concentrate on breathing, starting with air entering my body and leaving out. Another technique is Coping, to consider the situation from others perspective and to focus on the situation rather than emotion. These two techniques helps to control my anger and to better know myself.

One of the aspect of emotional intelligence is to read body language of others and myself. Having one of the pillar of EI to understand other feelings (empathy), solves 50 percent of the EI related problems. Having attention to a person’s body language I can begin to understand what he or she might be feelings and by knowing these I can behave accordingly and support others. To be an effective leader I will know what motivates others, to relate them in a positive manner and build strong relations with the

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