Interpersonal communication class helped me understand how to communicate with diverse people and how to communicate in different ways. Interpersonal communication is influenced by culture and gender; different cultures have anticipations about relationships and how people should interact and communicate within those relationships. Even though I learned many interesting things from all the chapters, the chapters that I enjoyed the most are about nonverbal communication, listening communication, and emotional communication.
Nonverbal communication
Nonverbal communication, also called manual language, is the process of sending and receiving messages without using words, spoken or written. Nonverbal communication includes pitch, speed, tone and
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I didn’t have enough knowledge about nonverbal communication before I took this class. The culture I grew up in has different meanings for nonverbal communication compared to other countries. Sleeping with your brother or friend on the same bed, people touching, and eye contact is normal in my culture, but has a different meaning in other cultures. We interpret messages according to how people react, and look. After I learned about nonverbal communication my eyes were opened and I remembered that my dad said to me, “don’t judge a person without knowing him or her very well.” Now I stop judging people by how they react or look. This chapter helped me understand how I will use nonverbal communication and how forms of nonverbal communication have different meanings with different cultures. Don’t judge a book by its …show more content…
After reading this chapter, I changed the way I used to communicate with people. I found out that I am not that good at listening communication, when people talk with me I usually think about other things and pretend to listen to them. Learning how to be an effective listener can help you become a better student, be more effective in your interpersonal relationships, lead others to perceive you as more intelligent and can help you become a stronger public speaker. Now I listen to other people when they talk to me by using the methods I learned from the book. Listening communication will be important in the future for my career because it is essential to know what people are saying and to give them the right answer. Working in groups to get information from all your group members and listening carefully to their response will get the work done correctly. With good listening skills you get more ideas and information from your team. Effective listening is very often the foundation of strong relationships with others, at home, socially, in education and in the
In every society nonverbal communication is one of the most powerful tools that a person can use to interpret the message that is being delivered. Even though verbal communication is fairly straightforward, nonverbal communication allows others to sense the true emotions of the person that is expressing them. For example even though a person may say that they are not irritated, their usage of voice may display otherwise. Nonverbal communication not only reveals hidden messages, but it also complements, substitutes, and exaggerates verbal communication.
Nonverbal communication is rich in meaning. Everyone communicates through nonverbal gestures and motions. I realized that you can decipher a lot from an individual or individuals by just paying close attention to what they do, and that words are not really necessary. Watching two people interacting, I figured that they are really close by their space communication, eye language, and body movements.
Nonverbal cues involve everything but the spoken word which includes: body posture and facial expressions, gestures, eyebrows, eyes, tone of voice, speed of delivery, inflections, volume, and proximity. Even one's attire sends messages to others. Each area of the nonverbal has the power to send a message; combined they tell the listener what is meant and what is felt. The power of the nonverbal cannot be over-rated; it will almost always ...
According to article entitled “ Marriage Quality” published by Comstock and Sterzizweick in 1990 states that “it is not absence or presence of problem which determines the marriage quality but it is how successful to handle conflicts, that determine marital relationship quality.
Good communication is an essentialvalue for successful relationships, whether personal or professional. Many researchers have stated that most of our communication is non-verbal. Non-verbal communication includes body language, facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, and the tone of our voice. The ability to understand and use non-verbal communication is great skills that will help individualsconnect with others, when trying express feelings, handlingdifficultsituations and creating relationships with other in various places.Non-verbal communication is the body way of sending messages between people. These messages can be sent through emotions, gestures, engagement, voice tone, posture, and clothing.
I strongly believe that the class, HD341 Communication for Empowerment fulfill my goals in taking this class because it is giving me many opportunities to make connection with other classmates. I usually check in by sharing my stories at school, at work, and any issues that I am still concerned. Therefore, verbal communication is an area I frequently use in class to communicate with my peers as well as my professor. I also have active listening my classmate’s stories and have critical thinking to giving feedbacks to them.
The purpose of this paper is not to teach you, or to show you how interpersonal communication is essential to everyday life at home or work. But, I am going to do my best to at least show you how essential communication skills are in all areas of life by using me as the example. My plan is to focus on some of the elements of interpersonal communication that we have been touching on this semester. While reading our Interpersonal Communications Book, three goals kept being highlighted that I personally wanted to accomplish by the end of course. I’m sure that by now have noticed that I keep referring to my topics as goals. The reason why I’m doing so is because I’m still on that learning curve…an ongoing process. If can recall back to all of our assignment in this course they all bring one collective point. That point is that, Interpersonal communication is an essential skill in everything that we do in life.
According to listening expert and researcher Dr. Ralph Nichols "The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them”. Listening as Nichols points out is both necessary and an integral aspect of the communication process and is one of the most important skills one can acquire. Although critically important in everyday and professional affairs the specific skill of effectively listening unfortunately is lacking in most people. The ability to listen effectively significantly impacts all relationships be it professional, personal or social. The prevailing issue with effective listening however is two-fold, in not truly understanding the meaning of listening and not possessing the tools required to be an effective listener.
The interpersonal communication class was just awesome in that I learned many diverse aspects from understanding nonverbal communication and interpersonal communication. The semester was filled with different activities that helped us to enhance our interpersonal communication skills. For instance, in every week, we had discussion post and reflection questions on what we had learnt. This course has been of great essence to me because I have discovered considerable information regarding interpersonal communication. I am now capable of dealing
When we communicate, we can say a lot without speaking, through our body, our posture, tone of voice and the expression on our face all display a message. If our feelings don’t fit with our words, it is often the body language that gets heard and believed. Nonverbal communication is a rapidly flowing interactive process. Being aware and understanding the cues you may be sending along with the cues others send and pick up from your body language, may not be showing what you are really trying to communicate to others at that moment.
The third lesson was the interpersonal relation communication social intelligence topic. A good active listening should encourage people think, speak up, try to understand people feeling more than people speak, have many different ways to deliver messages to others, and should take a short note when people said or discuss. In this chapter described the ways to improve the active listening by making eye contact with receivers, use non-verbal communication; body language and facial expressions, ask some questions for showing receivers clearly understand, summarize in your words by taking notes, should not interrupt when speakers speak wait until have time to discuss and do not talk too much just talk about context for understanding. The level
Now the communication class is almost over I have realize how important is to have good communication skills, and how it is key to life. I have learned many things in this class for example ways to approach strangers. Another thing that I have learned how to handle conflict and how sometimes it could be good it not always bad and many others. The way I look things have change to have reach my goals. This class was has also taught me how to look in the “other” perceptive, and not being selfish by just seeing one side. All that I have learn will help me and other around me to be able to communicate better.
It is not easy to understand significance of some things and their impact until you actually undergo them. Ability to effectively communicate and work is one such thing. Before I started business communication class, I was very pessimistic about my communication abilities and my competence in rapidly evolving field of business communication. I was unconfident and nervous on my first day of class. I quickly realized that business communication is course that you will never learn until you energetically engage in various situations of listening and speaking. However, with all wonderful experiences of participation in the class, I personally felt that I gained a real experience without even working in an organization. Interactive nature of the class combined with wonderful teaching of Diana has really helped me to gain immortal knowledge. Through this course, I have refined my communication skills and strengthened my confidence to deliver professional standards and competencies emphasized by potential employers. I would like to share how each module of the course helped me to hone my interpersonal skills:
I learned a lot about Human Communication in this class when I read the chapter about Nonverbal Communication. Nonverbal Communication is the process of using messages that are not words to generate meaning. I learned that it happens every day. I also learned that is very hard to read or understand depending on the person you are speaking to or with. Verbal and Nonverbal codes work in conjunction with each other. The words we speak or say are used in conjunction six different ways: to repeat, to emphasize, to complement, to contradict, to substitute, and to regulate. I never knew until reading this chapter that we do these things all most every time we communicate. These are things I took for granted until now. I now know that I will pay
Communication is one of the most important factors in our lives. It dictates the relationships formed with the individuals in personal and professional lives. Effective communication provides a foundation for trust and respect to grow. It also helps better understand a person and the context of the conversation. Individuals often believe that their communication skills are much better than what they actually are. Communication appears effortless; however, much of what two people discuss gets misunderstood, thus leading to conflicts and distress. To communicate effectively, one must understand the emotion behind the information being said. Knowing how to communicate effectively can improve relationships one has at home, work and in social affairs. Understanding communication skills such as; listening, non-verbal communication and managing stress can help better the relationships one has with others.