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We were no longer a part of the Hebrew Israelites. They temporarily disrupted our lives and we were done with all of that. Eric had finally graduated from high school. He did not graduate with the honors that I wanted, but at least he made it out of there. He was so bored with it; he did not even walk across the stage. He asked his counselor to mail his diploma to him. We had not heard from any of the Hebrew Israelites at all for many months and we were very happy with that. I was driving home from work and my cell phone rang. I answered it. “Hey Sis, How are you doing?” “Don’t act like you don’t know me girl! This is Sister Mandy!” “What going on Sister Mandy? I have really missed you tremendously!” I really did miss her too. She was never a full member of that group of Hebrew Israelites and she was the one that warned me never to take them too seriously. “Girl I am just calling to check in with you to see how you and the family are doing? Gabriel sitting his crazy ass up in every Sabbath meeting talking about how you attacked him like a crazy woman and how you are a witch and you are teaching your family witchcraft. Gabriel and Nadia got evicted from their apartment and they have moved in with Fiyama now. They are supposed to be helping her with bills and taking care of her house while Kush is in prison. Instead of them helping her, they are tearing up the woman’s house! You know lazy ass Nadia got Fiyama cleaning up after her and Gabriel. Treating the girl like a slave! Oh yeah, the bookstore finally closed up too. Kush was the only one of the Jamaicans that was interested in keeping the bookstore going so when he went to prison that just fell apart.” I listened to the gossip that Mandy had to share, but I was really ... ... middle of paper ... ...cancer. I just did not believe her at all and I could not believe her. In other words I went into denial. Even though she was lying in a hospital bed, I still could not believe that she had stomach cancer. None of us said anything at all. The nurse came in the room to check Mama’s stats again and we left the room. We did not know what to do with ourselves at all. We went down to the cafeteria and we cried together. We tried to find ways to support each other but we could do nothing but cry. We knew it was something serious especially since Mama was in the hospital, but cancer had never crossed our minds at all. We thought it would be something that Mama could easily recover from. We sat down in the cafeteria and cried our eyes out. Then we cleaned up our faces and got ourselves together as best we could so that we could put on our strong faces in front of Mama.

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