Persuasive Essay On Real Relationships

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In the past, people generally met in social situations, where they had the opportunity to talk and get to know each other without any background knowledge. But recently it has become more and more common for people to meet online. The internet allows the opportunity to find people with common interests and ideas, which would then in turn allow a bond to form faster and may help the relationship progress. While some people argue that real relationships can not be made or sustained online because of the risk of being catfished, a real connection can be made solely through an online relationship because real feelings and emotions can be shared even if people are not physically together.

Online relationships, or at least relationships that start
Nicholas Carr, a technology and culture writer, says, “Life is lonely; all connections have value.” Carr is showing that even though a connection may be made online rather than in person, it still has meaning something to those involved. Carr also says in his article, “Only the mean of spirit would seek to redline certain varieties of… friendship - to claim that some… relationships ‘don’t count.’” The people involved in online relationships are able to create a connection like that between people who are friends in real life. Feelings and emotions are still able to be communicated and understood between individuals when they are not physically with one another, which is why online relationships can be so strong. Alice Marwick, the director of the McGannon Center and assistant professor of Communication and Media Studies at Fordham University, sums it up by saying that “sharing written accounts cemented and solidified budding acquaintanceships and romantic relationships….” Marwick tells about her life as a blogger and how the people she met through her blogs came to be some of her closest friends because of the deep connections formed through their writings. When talking about the relationships she still holds online, Marwick says, “I feel genuine closeness and intimacy with them [people still on her blog friends list] based on their words, though they are written by people I’ve never met.” She proves that the internet can be a place to make connections and lifelong

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