How My Personality Developed

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According to Larsen and Buss (2005, p. 4), “personality is defined as a set of psychological traits and mechanisms within an individual that are organized and relatively enduring which that influence the individual’s interactions with, and adaptations to, the intrapsychic, physical, and social environments”. Then, the enhancement from the dynamic organization that leads to distinctive is called personality development. Blanchard-Fields and Cavanaugh (2011, p. 14) stated that “personality development is progressed by the continuous interaction of the biological, psychological, sociocultural, and life-cycle forces of development such as the environment, character and temperament”. Not only that, the correct way in going thru or settling down a significant life event may improve one’s personality and lead to a better person in latter life. I was a self-centered, over-confidence and ego person. I only did things that benefited to me and thought that people around me had the responsible to treat me well until I had diagnosed the early-stage of breast cancer when I was 16 years old. The incident made me realized my own weaknesses and I was facing down-point of my life. After that, the attitude of a nurse and supports from my family changed my personality development and made me to become the person today.
Description
I was the youngest in my family. I came from a wealthy family. My father was a businessman. He always had to meet with his clients and business-partners but he never neglected his family. My mother was a housewife who always taking good care of the children. I have one elder sister and two elder brothers. Everyone in my family loves and adores me. Thus, I was being spoilt. My parents would give me anything I want and su...

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...d made me to have the urge to act based on perfectionist and idealistic. Once my superego has developed, balancing of the forces is achieved because the ego must acts simultaneously with the desire of id and the constraints of reality. It really needs the intrinsic part of my mind to go thru the conflicts between id, ego and superego.
Conclusion
It is important to have the knowledge about personality development. Learning personality development is like equipped oneself with essential skills that can outstand and promote yourselves. It is not just enhance yourself in all kind of aspects but also motivates yourselves for not giving up easily regardless of what situation you are facing. I feel lucky that I have the knowledge on personality development which I can understand myself deeper and it do relate to my daily activities. I behave and think more mature now.

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