Gender Today in Make Believe Play

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Does the development of Make Believe play lead to guys cross dressing and does this mean masculinity studies are inherently sexist? From ages 2 to 7, many children are doing make-believe-paly, a type of play in which children act out everyday and imaginary activities: such as pretending to be a doctor to help sick patients, playing house, or dressing up. The benefits of make believe play are, it helps the child reflects on thinking, it help controls behavior, and it helps the child gain in social, lingual and literacy skills. From recent videos masculinity is inherently sexist, because a child knows which gender role does what. For an example, the child knows which gender role goes to work and which gender role stays home to cook, clean and take care of the children. Make believe plays leads to cross-dressing and cross-dressing leads to being called mean names, being misunderstood and suicide.
In America, your gender is based on stereotypes, roles, and intensification, meaning stereotyping of attitudes and behavior movement toward a more traditional gender identity. In a matter of nature vs. nurture, your gender is based on what you are supposed to learn from your parents, school, and what the outside world teaches you. Men are supposed to have masculine traits, such as being strong, aggressive, tough, and non-emotional, and women are supposed to have feminine traits, such as being emotional, sensitive, nurturing, and weak.
In many masculinity and femininity studies it is said that males are generally masculine and women are generally feminine, and both men and women are supposed to have a gender role. A gender role is a “theoretical construct in the social sciences and humanities that refers to a set of social and behavioral n...

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...y to commit suicide. Bobby’s mother thought that he could be cured and when she told him she did not want a homosexual son he went and committed suicide by jumping off a bridge.
As a final point, masculinity and femininity is views as what the worlds sees you as. For example women are suppose to be feminine and men a re suppose to be masculine, but if a man is feminine and a woman is masculine than they are being judge. When being masculine a man is suppose to be strong and non-emotional, he is not suppose to have any feminine aspect to him or he would be called homophobic. Growing up many parents does not want their son to play with dolls but they let their daughters play with cars or fire trucks. Parents should let their children explore and not judging them. Anyway being too masculine or too feminine leads to being called names, being misunderstood and suicide.

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