Being brought up in an African household, is a main reason that I identify as a male today. Both my parents came from Africa, so they are set in the strict customs that the man is in charge of the house. In Rangel’s essay he said, “Women are essentially trained to be attractive glorified servants first, intellectuals second”(Rangel, 4) It is a pain to hear that, but it is true, especially in my household. My mom would always be the one to cook everyday, and sometimes we would not even eat her food. Then she would always teach my sisters about how to cook, but she has never tried to teach me. She would usually call me whenever she needed something fixed. This showed me that boys were not meant to cook, but only the girls were supposed to make food for us. Also it is on media all the time that women are the ones that are supposed to be in the kitchen. In almost every cooking commercial, whether human beings or cartoons, whenever it comes to cooking in the kitchen, there is almost always a women in it with the exception of a man in a n apron cooking barbeque. This is reinforcing in kids heads that what women are made for is cooking, when they are just as capable to do anything else.
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... of my of my generation, depicted blond haired girls as good and deserving of joy and love and black haired girls as tomboyish and aggressive.” This shows that media is trying to plant little seeds in kids heads about how they should act. Due to media, most girls want to be like Sleeping Beauty, while most guys want to be the macho man that saves the day.
It would be immensely hard for me to unlearn all the traits I have acquired from my gender identity. Partly due to the fact that, I do not have a problem with who I am today. That still does not mean there is not a problem in the way these kids are brought up, kids should have a right to choose their gender based on whatever criteria they want. Instead of deciding our future generations kid’s gender for them, let 's make a change and become a diversified country that respects and allows any person to be any gender.
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