Gay Love and Marriage is Natural

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There are many ways to describe marriage. There are legal definitions, biblical definitions, and personal definitions. Which one is the right definition? The decision of which definition is the right one depends on where you live and what you believe. Marriage has evolved throughout history. In today’s society there are many different types of unions that can be viewed as marriages. Comparing these different relationships give insight to how relationships are formed and joined. Although marriage is just a civil union in the eyes of the government, it is so much more to the people involved.

I feel that there is a rite of passage when forming a marriage. It is not just to form a union so that the government can give you benefits. It is a gift. I believe it is a gift from God when you find that person that makes your life better. Even if a person doesn’t believe in a higher power like Christianity does, a person’s natural instinct is to love and to be loved. It is normal that being loved makes a person feel good and become more secure. A marriage is supposed to have the foundation of love. Life is about sharing your pain, pleasure, and experiences together as a husband and wife. Even though I might believe in a traditional marriage, a relationship is still about giving and receiving love.

The biblical point of view is what I base my opinion on. “Marriage as God ordained it is to be intimate and unified in all aspects: spiritual, physical, financial, emotional, intellectual, and personal” (A Biblical Perspective of Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage). God determined that one man and one woman would be joined together to create one flesh. The biblical point of view gives marriage meaning. Without this meaning marriage would just be ...

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