Analysis Of Lars And The Real Girl

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I remember when Lars and the Real Girl first came out. I was looking through the newly released movies one evening and as I did Lars and the Real Girl‘s movie cover caught my eye. I recall being puzzled by the movie cover and by the title of the movie. I thought, I would like to watch this movie, but tonight is not the night. After that night I forgot about that movie until we watched it for class. It is great that we are able to apply the frameworks we have be taught to this amazing movie. The frameworks I will discuss are first order cybernetics, lifecycle, and construcvism. First, let’s discuss Lars and the Real Girl with the lens of a first order cybernetics thinker. Lars, Karen, and Gus are a family or a system, which means they impact Lars and Karen have an interesting relationship. She tends to be pushy towards Lars and he reacts with resistance. Lars and Gus don’t really know how to talk to each other, but they try with hesitance. Karen and Gus are happily married and expecting a baby, but it seems like Karen sways Gus in her direct often. Karen and Gus seem to have a symmetrical relationship, which means they have equal roles in the family (Gerhart, 2013). I think this because Karen always seems to want to be supportive towards Lars and she gets Gus to be as well. In the movie it shows us that Lars is living in the garage alone, which is where he isolates himself when he is not at work. I feel Lars has a complimentary relationship with both Gus and Karen, which means he doesn’t have equal roles to them. Also, we see that Karen and This event occurs because of the developmental stage that Lars is in. It is considered to be socially normal to have a girlfriend at Lar’s age. The people in town demonstrate this in the movie by telling Lars he is a good looking guy and that he is at an age where he should find a nice girlfriend. I feel Lars decides to get the doll because of these pressures from the people in town while meeting his own needs. This event is considered non-normative because buying a doll to be your girlfriend and then communicating with that doll is definitely a deviation from social norms. Although Lars is very pleased about having this doll as his girlfriend this event puts a lot of stress on Gus and Karen. Lars changes by being happy and outgoing while spending time with Bianca. Gus and Karen change by being stressed and worried about Lars. This deviation from the social norm causes a social change in the Gus, Karen, and the community because they begin to accept Bianca as being a real girl to help

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