Feminismuality In Adrienne Rich's Compulsory Heterosexuality

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Feminist theory examines sexuality through a lens that is very critical of male-dominated power structures that perpetuate the subordination of women. Many feminist scholars argue that the institution of heterosexuality itself is a construct, or “a beachhead of male dominance” (p. 633), according to Adrienne Rich in her essay “Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence” (1980). From a feminist theoretical standpoint, humans develop sexuality as their gender identities develop: “our sexual desires, feelings, and preferences are deeply imprinted by our gender status” (Seidman, 2003, p. 18). This relates to Rich’s notion of compulsory heterosexuality - a facet of feminist theory that claims women are forced into heterosexual roles by a male-dominated …show more content…

Rich claims that the reason so many women fall prey to the “lie of compulsory female heterosexuality” (Rich, 1980, p. 657) is because they are conditioned from an early age to believe in it. She writes, “the ideology of heterosexual romance, beamed at her from childhood out of fairy tales, television, films, advertising, popular songs, wedding pageantry, is a tool ready to the procurer 's hand and one which he does not hesitate to use…” (Rich, 1980, p. 645). In the film, Christian appeals to Ana’s belief in traditional, heterosexual romance in order to manipulate her into doing what he wants. On their first (and only) real date, he asks Ana if she is a romantic, to which she answers, “Well, I study English Lit, so I kind of have to be.” Rich would argue that since Ana has been fed this idealized version of heterosexual romance through her study of literature, she is more willing to submit to Christian’s will and go against her own better judgment in hopes that her romantic fantasy just might be fulfilled. Christian is aware of this. When they are negotiating the contract he devised for their arrangement, he mentions to Ana that he’ll “throw in a sweetener” to make the situation more appealing to her. He says, “How about, once a week, on a night of your choosing, we go on a date. Just like a regular couple. Dinner, movie, ice-skating. …show more content…

Steven Seidman writes in The Social Construction of Heterosexuality (2003), “...[Adrienne Rich and Catherine MacKinnon] claim that the very essence of what is called sexuality - desires, fantasies, pleasures, acts - reveals the male wish for control and dominance… The point is not to liberate sexuality from social control… but for women to claim the power to define their own sexual desires and fashion their own sexual-intimate lives” (p. 22). Ana is not able to do this in the film. Christian constantly tells her what to do, and as she is completely sexually inexperienced (which is often a fantasy for predatory men) she does not know what she wants. When trying to get her to sign the contract, Christian tells her that he also felt intimidated when entering his first BDSM relationship. Ana asks what changed his mind, and he replies: “By giving up control, I felt free - from responsibility, from making decisions. I felt safe. You will too, you’ll see. I never took anyone in the helicopter. Never had sex in my own bed. Never slept with anyone. Ever. Only you.” Christian employs many tactics in this quote to coerce Ana into signing his contract. Firstly, he

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