Family Systems, Subsystems ad Boundaries:
Family: The family is made up of four sisters and Mom. Dad is a very important part of the family system as well even though he does not live together with them.
Boundaries: The family shows rigid boundaries in their interactions. For instance, Meghan’s body language and expressions distance her from the family. Meghan seems resistant to integrate in the family dynamic. Meghan’s behavior demonstrates a rigid boundary. For instance, during session Meghan sits next to Molly and far away from Mom and Kai. Also, Meghan resistance to integrate into family rituals and traditions such as Sunday night dinner, demonstrate another rigid boundary.
Mom and Work: Mom has one subsystem within the family which
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Mom, Kai and Jenna: are another subsystem. They understand the boundaries and household rules and both follow and enforce them within the household when Mom is absent.
Boundary: Mom, Jenna and Kai are a diffused boundary since their interaction excludes Meghan and Molly. This boundary, may affect Meghan’s behavior and participation in family routines. Because this boundary only includes older sisters and Mom, the youngest sisters face challenges when integrating into family rituals and traditions.
Dad, Meghan and Molly: they are a subsystem and being the both biological daughters, they share a bond with dad. Dad seems to reciprocate this bond by being closer with the sisters and offering emotional support as stated by the sisters.
Boundary: Dad, Meghan and Molly have both a diffused and rigid boundary. Because they both have the same father, they share a closer relationship with him than Kai and Jenna. This boundary excludes Mom as well as the older
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Communication Patterns
Each individual talk to the social worker and answers questions. The family makes eye contact with each other, with the exception of Meghan who sits with her arms crossed and seems to be distracted most of the session, unless addressed directly.
When mom is asked questions about the whereabouts of Meghan, Jenna often answers these questions. When mom was asked about Meghan “sneaking out” of school mom did not have an answer. Instead, Jenna answered for her.
Molly does not talk much unless addressed directly. Family seems uncomfortable answering sensitive questions. For instance, when Mom was asked about current affectional relationship, she redirected the question and did not answer.
When Jenna addressed Meghan, and tells her to stop “sneaking out” of the house, Meghan becomes irritated and does not make eye contact with Jenna.
When Kai addresses Mom about her constant busy work schedule, Mom does not answer to Kai. When Meghan was asked what she would like to do or see change? Meghan explained that she does not need rules from Jenna or Mom and she is old enough to care for herself; to which Mom became upset and argumentative towards
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