Failure is not an Option Failure is apart of life, it can make or break a person. When a person experiences a type of failure it is now up to them to see how they respond. They can choose the high road, and become a stronger person for it. Then they can choose the low road, the easy way out. The easy way out is never a good choice. It can lead only to destruction. The high road is the right choice to take when responding to failure. It will lead down a path of success. Jessica Lahey’s article, “When Success Leads to Failure” is an article that shows how kids are experiencing failure. Lahey says that, “these kids have a fear for failure, and that they have given up natural loves for learning. They are scared of not being successful”(Lahey). The truth is life is hard there will be failure. There is nothing in this world that comes easy to anyone. Failure is necessary in life. It should not be a thing to be afraid of. Being afraid to fail will only make a person not be their best. If one has an attitude of being afraid of failure, they need to take a step back, and really diagnose their life. Some failures can be prevented but only if one stays on the right path to success. Most times people fail is because they ignore what is right, and choose the …show more content…
When a person is young it is mainly their parents responsibility to raise them right. Raising them correctly will help them make good choices as they get older. Putting children through the right amount of education will also impact the person they become as they get older. “Programs at one stage or age may or may not prepare students for later experiences. Ideally, the learning situation in preschool will foster independence and child-initiated activities.” (Slavin). School has a big impact on a person and who they will become. Parents need to put their kids in good situations early on. This will help the kid develop better and be more
No child starts off life wanting to develop insecure attachments, develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or be abused or neglected. Most of us want to be successful, well-adjusted and self-actualized individuals. Most of our parents dream the dream of having the perfect little Johnny or Janie. Parents often dream of a child who is intelligent, high-achieving, and creative. The fact of the matter is not all of us are as fortunate as others are in the families to which we are born. Part of the success of failure experience by many of my clients has to do
Since failure is truly more common than success, one’s question for life should not be if you have problems, but how you are going to deal with your problems. Philosophically speaking, there is no achievement without failure. To even imply that it might be possible to achieve anything without failure, gives people the wrong impression. The person construct theory introduced by George Kelly, Psychologist, says that in order to know success and its definition we must also know failure and its definition (INSERT CITATION). One can’t have proper perspective without the other. That theory goes hand-in-hand with the concept of failure and success - navigating/conducting individual behavioral situations test our perceptions and interpretations. If we do not like the results or “how we handled it”, we can change - albeit not always easily. (INSERT
After reading Failure is Not an Option by Nathan Wallace, we ponder whether failure is beneficial or not. However, after reading the passage, we stumble upon a quote where Wallace says “Failure is always an option. Failure can lead to great learning and progress when a specific failure is analyzed through the lens of a growth mindset.”
This quote relates a bad hop that a ground ball takes in baseball to obstacles in my life as well as relating great plays to overcoming those obstacles. This brings me to my laws of life which are how to deal with failure and how to make the best of a bad situation put before you.
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fall." These words by Ralph Waldo Emerso perfectly describe my feeling towards failure. Now this wasn't my mentality from the start; in fact, this way of thinking took time and some wise words from my parents. One experience that I recount as a failure was seventh grade tennis tryouts. Knowing that I had my faith in my hand, but being overconfident and arrogant was my demise. That particular incident had a mind altering effects on my mentality as a whole.
I have always been someone that is afraid to fail. From such an early age as I can remember I didn’t like to be the loser in games or get questions wrong on my school work. To me failure meant that you weren’t good enough. My parents never really taught me otherwise. I don’t think my parents really felt that they had to go over failure with me even through college. I encountered many coaches throughout my soccer career and I was always the outstanding player on the team. I was used to winning, winning in games and in the classrooms.
Everyone in life experiences failure. It can affect people positively or negatively and that all depends on how they react to the experience. If one lets their failure overcome their dreams, it will lead them in the wrong path. But if one views their failures as a motive to succeed and grow, then they are on their way to becoming successful. For me, I let my failures in life help build onto my character and define the person I am today. My childhood injury is my example as I let this moment affect the outcome of my dreams I had then.
Failure is one aspect of life that no one can avoid. The terror that comes from failure is that it has the power to break someone down to where they feel they can not get up and overcome the situation. Failing at a situation seems to make all hard work vanish in an instant, as if all the time and effort that was put forth into succeeding was never even there. Although failure can hurt and cause anxiety and even depression, it also allows a person to discover that even though they have been crushed they can still conquer it and succeed in the end.
My teachers have talked to me about failure, that it’s fine to fail and not to be afraid. In one of “Dwecks” paragraphs it mentions that when students would fail they would stop trying (4). Everyone in life makes mistakes, those who make mistakes learn from them and make them better. Those who don’t learn from their mistakes won’t know anything besides making mistakes after mistakes. My teachers weren’t the only ones who advanced my motivation but also my parents. My parents where always on me they would send me to school made sure I would finish my homework and never gave up on me as much as difficult as it got. That no matter how challenging things get you have to overtake your obstacles. Don’t let your setbacks over take you, once you’ve let that happen you’ll stop pushing yourself forward. Don’t give up on the mistake you make work harder to get it better next time. “Brainology” mentions that intelligence comes from potential that its release throughout your learning experience
Failure is something in life that everyone is afraid of. Failure is apart of everyone’s life at some point whether it’s in a sport, at school, or even just a part of daily life. Failure can be in taken in two ways, one; you can take the failure in as a challenge and push to strive better and never want to fail again, or two; take failure in bad and not want to try harder and just give up without after failing once. Some of the richest or even successful people in life have had failures. The famous basketball player Michael Jordan, when he was a sophomore he tried out for the varsity basketball team and didn’t make it. But if it wasn’t for that failure in his life he would of have never tried his hardest to end up becoming one of the best NBA players in history and have one of the most successful shoe brands. That’s just one of the many successful people who had failures in life.
People usually afraid of failure because they tried to do something and failed, or took a risk and it didn’t pay off, or made a decision and it turned out to be the wrong one. That fear of failure create the stress and anxiety when people want to do something hard or try something new. Just because you tried something two or three time and failing does not mean the entire idea is a mistake. Do you expect to get a Blackjack on every game that you played? That would be an impossible thing to do. There is no success that comes without failure, where failure is experiences and lessons that help you to perfect your works. People should overcome their fear of failure and use failure as a tool to work toward their success because failing is so important
As Bill Cosby has said, "In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. " When you're scared that you're going to fail it could hinder or motivate you to reach your goals. Fear of failure motivates one to accomplish their goals because of a passion to succeed. The motivation to reach our goals with fear of failure are affected by what we are passionate about and the opportunities we take.
Failure happens when something isn't successful. Failure is a thing that all people can learn from. Failures can be used as lessons so that the failure will not be repeated again. One of my greatest failures in life that I've experienced and learned from would be from the time of my first grade year. I didn’t take school seriously when I was in the first grade and made terrible grades. After this failure, it made change the outlook on school and I started trying. I learned that I need to take school serious or else I will do bad in school. This failure lead to success in school and I started making good grades which will help later on in life.
It doesn’t matter if they are failing or success, the only thing matter is how hard people are trying during the process. The value of success will worth and have respect after they walk through failure. It’s important on how people stand up after they failed, not how they failed, because everyone will fail at least one time on their life. A good example of people who fail but they stand up and learn from it is people who play sport. At first time of playing, no one will good at sport. Sometime they make a common mistake when they start play but if they learn from it, they won’t make that same mistake again during the game. To have that success they have to make mistake and fail during the practice so they can learn from it and practice to overcome their failure. But people who never fail when they play, they may make a common mistake on the
More is learned from failure than from success. Kids need to experience failure because, it helps them work harder for what they want to achieve life, failure helps them become stronger in real life problems, failure also can teach kids to be thoughtful winners and respectable losers and to never take winning for granted. Winning and losing in sports is very important as well, If you don’t have a winner and a loser in a game the loser will never know what they are doing wrong and how to fix it.