Exploring the Different Styles of Coaching

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It is the rare individual who has the exact same style and set of behaviors at work as at home. There are many legitimate reasons for this. When asked why they have different behaviors and actions, people typically respond that work has a completely different environment and calls for adaptations to that environment. There is a supervisor to whom they report, creating a somewhat subservient role. There are also the daily pressures, stressors, deadlines, lack of autonomy and other situations involving low power over which one has very little control. At home, one generally wouldn’t duplicate any of that. It is more of a shared responsibility with a partner and usually more control over the daily, weekly and long term goals and desired outcomes. In other words, much more choice in matters. Therefore, the style and behavior, and measurements one is accountable to, are much more in tune with the real style and personality of a person than what is demonstrated at work. I have been both a work coach and personal coach. I find the work coach role to be much easier, as one’s responsibility may be primarily to guide, teach or even direct behavior or methods. Some refer to this as external coaching. A personal coach, working with someone on their personality, values, beliefs and aspirations, is engaged in a personality or attitudinal situation, or what may be referred to as internal coaching. People can very easily adjust behavior, depending on motivational levels. It is a very difficult prospect to change one’s personality or home style. However, with the appropriate inspiration and desire, it can be done. Assessment I chose to take the assessment from case 9-2 twice; once as if I were answering it from a work coach perspecti... ... middle of paper ... ...nter-productive and ineffectual. An adaptive coach with a combination of styles is a more optimal approach (Aguinis, 2009). In conclusion, my plan is to employ all four styles with equal ease. There should be an almost transparent evolution from one style to the next; a seam-less transition designed to meet the participants needs while accomplishing results. From past experience, that is much easier said than done but certainly a noble endeavor indeed. References Aguinis, H. (2009). Performance Management. (2nd Ed). Upper Saddle River, New Jersey: Pearson Prentice Hall Hersey, P. (1984). The Situational Leader. New York: Warner. Hersey, P. and Blanchard, K. H. (1977). The Management of Organizational Behaviour. Upper Saddle River, N. J.: Prentice Hall. Smith, D. (1999). Make Success Measurable. New York: John Wiley & Sons

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