Examining Reasons Why Kids Join Gangs

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Some truths are universal. A child comes into this world with needs. Infants need to be physically close to their mother and be able to receive and give affection to form an ever-lasting emotional bond. Children need to feel that they are safe, that they will never be abandoned, and that they are loved and valued. This deeply special relationship between a mother and child steers the person's relationships for rest of his or her life. If this relationship is close and secure, then the child learns to trust and love. If this relationship is emotionally distant and inconsistent, and especially if there is abuse, then the child learns not to trust or care and believes that he or she is all alone and the world becomes a very large and scary place. The importance of this profound connection between mother and child cannot be over-stated enough. Since God created us for bonding, it's part of our very essence. If we cannot bond to loving relationships, we will bond to something else that is not so loving. This is the root of the gang problem.

Gangs are successful at recruiting our youth because they offer the promise of fulfilling all these needs that are not being met.They take the form of providing a “family” for a child who feels neglected or unloved at home. Since the beginning of humanity, criminal organizations that engage in secretive and criminal behavior have been around to be a menace to society. Gangs are not a new problem in America, nor are the problems associated with them. However, they have never been as pernicious or as ubiquitous as they are today.

Let’s take a brief look backwards because you can see the future in the past. The beginning of America's gang started during the first waves of Euro...

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...n. What will emerge are children, born to parents that wanted them, that planned for them. Children whose needs are met, whose parents provide for them, whose parents cherish them. This all may sound too ideal for some, but every problem has at least one viable solution.

We can do this.

Because these children are

“Too big to fail”.

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