Throughout history there has always been a hierarchy between men and women. Men always seemed to have the upper hand and were the ones with all of the power. There was always a power struggle between men and women. Women went from having almost no rights to being able to vote, have an education, and work in the same place men do. I find it fascinating how women have come so far however; I still feel that there is still a ways to come terms of equality. Media can play a role in reinforcing certain stereotypes about men and women; this contributes to the pressures men of how men and women feel they should act in society. Some may argue that there is a male crisis in society however; I believe that women are entitled to equal rights and the same opportunities as men. Looking back on earlier history when women had no rights it appears that there have been drastic changes since then. The traditional view of men and women is changing which is not causing a male crisis instead it is benefitting society. One of the groups that I celebrate fights to eliminate sexism and the stereotypes within society is a profeminist movement known as the National Organization for Men Against Sexism. This movement in compared to the other male movements focuses on sexism and making other males aware of the stereotypes and societal views of women. After watching Tough Guise 2, it is evident that there are many pressures that men face in ways in which they should behave. The pressures are so high that if men do not follow these pressures lead them to become outcasts within peers and even their family. I applaud the people in NOMAS that are able to stand out and expand men’s awareness of sexism. Some of their goals are “To sponsor workshops to expand men’s ... ... middle of paper ... ...en in the media is men acting aggressive. This aggression is a common stereotype in that men are aggressive; this stereotype partly has truth to it because the media has such an influence on people. Tough Guise 2 portrays this that boys are taught from a young age how to act such as not showing emotions except for anger. In Tough Guise 2, men put on a persona to show that they are tough because they don’t want to be referred to as “bitch” or “pussy” because that to them takes away their masculinity. It is taught through media and movies that real men go to violence to win and attain respect and credibility while also acting fearless and aggressive. Men are constantly exposed to images of how they should look which are completely unrealistic. For example, GiJo’s muscles got bigger and bigger as the years went on which was portrayed that real men are big and strong.
Tough Guise also backs the point that gender performance is a very culture heavy. The main point to tie in with the class would probably have to be that the way these men act is because of a cultural construction of gender that states that all men are supposed to be violent or aggressive. This then sweeps the main issue of cultural conditioning under the rug. All in all, Tough Guise 2 was an enlightening and interesting video. I would strongly suggest that everyone watch this film at least once because it provides such heavy insight into how we shape each other’s
Men have always seen themselves as being in a protective role towards women. That is apparent in the home as well as in the workplace. In today's society women hold top positions within large corporations. The boundaries between women and men are much less restricting than they were years ago. Women have had to work very hard to gain the respect of their male counterparts. It is an ongoing struggle in the corporate world, in academia, and in the professional world. The glass ceiling of the past has been raised, but it will still be some time before it is completely broken.
In today’s society boys become men when they hit puberty or lose their virginity. But women on the other hand become women when they get married and have children. It was commonly known that men earn more money in the workplace, and hold higher positions. Since years ago women have been able to do nothing, they had no say nor, could they vote. Women were expected to keep quiet when a problem occurred and not speak up for what they believed in. It was the stereotype that “a woman’s place was in the home”. The men were out making the money for the family so it was like what could you possi...
Let’s travel back in time to about the 1700s and the 1800s, back when women had absolutely no rights as an individual and men were considered superior to women. A time where women couldn’t be anything but a housewife and do anything beside house chores, reproduce, and take care of the kids. Meanwhile, men would go out to the world and work. However, throughout the centuries, women fought for their equal rights until they finally succeeded. Back to the present day, women today outnumber men in graduating college, and in professional programs. Gender roles today took a complete twist compared to how it was back then.
Women today hold many roles in society. We are mother, care givers, daughters, wives, bosses, employees, educators, arbitrators and the list can go on and on. In my view we are the glue that can hold a family together and the ethical back bone in a still very male dominated society. Males have been the force behind most of the ethical and moral decisions that dominate our world. Women for much of our known history been subservient, dominated, and treated as second class citizens. We have been told that we are too sensitive and not as smart as men. It was believed and debated for many centuries that a women could only be virtues if she was a mother and a wife. This was her role because of her gender. With all the negativity towards women we
Jackson Katz is the founder of Mentors in Violence Prevention which is an education program that has been focused on military and sporting organizations in attempts to put a halt on gender violence. Other than being an educator, Katz is also an author and filmmaker. In 2013, he produced the film Tough Guise 2. In this film, Katz reviews the normalization of male jurisdiction in America. The film looks at the messages of gun violence, sexism, and bullying that are sent to men throughout their entire life. Tough Guise 2 argues the statement that male brutality is a rooted back to our cultural standards of manhood. A pivotal point of the film is that a male’s masculinity is not just handed to them, it must be earned. During the course of the film, this point is supported by examples such as gun violence, homophobic messages and mass shootings.
Three key points that stood to me in “Tough Guise” are: Men are putting on a tough guise charade to survive, men are conditioned to be tough by the media and culture norms, and that violence is the great equalizer for men. We notice that in the streets men are tough and project the aura of “don’t mess with me.” But in the comfort of home men are very different. I personally have seen my tough boyfriend do a complete 180 on multiple occasions. In the streets he is getting into fights and breaking his hand. He then refuses the idea of needing medical attention to the point of me having to drag him by the ear to the car and make him see a doctor. He barely took any pain medication and continued going out with the boys. When my boyfriend got the simple common cold he was the biggest baby I had ever seen. He literally whined about his clogged up nose, pounding headache, and could not seem to get out of bed because he thought he was dying of the small 99 degree “fever” and called me to do everything. In the street he was perfectly fine and barely sniffled, but once we were alone he shed the tough guy act and wanted me to wait on him hand and foot. He was even to “weak” to lift a five ounce cup of hot tea to his lips (which I had to blow on first because it was too hot) and drink it. The other recurring theme in the video was that men are conditioned to be tough. If a man is not considered tough by the world around him he will be ridiculed and will not be respected. Even in
Men and women equality is something the nation will be fighting for forever. It will never be solved but hopefully the leaders of the nation will come to the realization that men and women came into the world the same way and will leave the world the same way so why should they be treated differently. It is time for women to turn around and lead the man in a dance for once because who knows, women might just do it better.
Most of the time these issues are taken lightly, and go unnoticed until someone or some group pays attention to the inequality and typical roles. It becomes interesting when roles are reversed in society to see how others react to those situations. Society seems to be getting more comfortable with female success, and less obsessed with women staying home to do housework. No matter how successful, there is always a struggle for dominance. It also seems to depend on how children are brought up as to how strongly those individuals strive to achieve their specific role. It will be interesting to see as society changes over time how the defined gender roles will continue to change as well. Whether it is the conflict of success, supremacy, or need for perfection roles will sustain time just as they have from the beginning.
Society has females and males alike typecasted into roles which have basic characteristics that are the reverse of each other. Although this has begun to change over the past thirty years, typically the man was seen as superior to the female. This superior image is one that today, is slowly on its way to being reduced to one of complete equality between the two genders.
Men were taught to be superior to women since the dawn of time, whereas females were looked down upon. Ruled by patriarchy, it was hard for most of these women to do more than just be a stay at home wife. In some of the stories we have read, the women were portrayed as submissive, obedient, with no voice. Women have struggled to break out of this mold and find a voice for themselves. However, some managed to break out of these expectations and standards. Women and men have had to fulfill different set standards before anyone had stepped foot outside the womb. For both genders those standards came with different expectations.
Throughout Western history it was known to have this Patriarchal system in which the men are the head of the family, and community, during which these spheres between the male and female were divided, each having their own set of roles: the male in the public view and the women in the private view. The men worry about what is going on outside the home like politics, money, control over property while the women take care of what happens on the inside of the home doing things like taking care of the children and doing the house work. With these roles set in place the women have had a hard time being respected because of this Patriarchy.
Throughout history, women have remained subordinate to men. Subjected to the patriarchal system that favored male perspectives, women struggled against having considerably less freedom, rights, and having the burdens society placed on them that had been so ingrained the culture. This is the standpoint the feminists took, and for almost 160 years they have been challenging the “unjust distribution of power in all human relations” starting with the struggle for equality between men and women, and linking that to “struggles for social, racial, political, environmental, and economic justice”(Besel 530 and 531). Feminism, as a complex movement with many different branches, has and will continue to be incredibly influential in changing lives.
Even though society has distorted the ideals feminism was founded upon, some of the remaining true roots still hold true. While women are gaining equal opportunities in society, they need to not diminish the importance of working together with men to form a functional society. The widespread idea of quotas needs to be analyzed. People should be accepted into college or hired for a job because they are the most qualified, not because of their sex. Society has demented feminism as a harmful dogma because it has been an excuse, almost a cop-out by women who do not want to work for their acceptance. Both men and women need to realize the necessity that exists for each other to make society work.
Gender inequality all began because of the patriarchal society back in past centuries. Some people, mostly males, are still having issues and concerns that our society is not so much male dominated anymore. Today females have a lot more freedom and opportunities in the employment fields especially in occupations that people have always stereotyped men to have. Altman and Pannell (2012) state that, “Domestic work, weather paid or unpaid, has long been socially defined as women’s work.” (p. 293). Ever since the 19th and 20th century, women have been stereotyped as household employers and men have always been the financial providers in society. Men used to be viewed as physically and mentally stronger than women, and claim that th...