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Actions do speak louder than words. “I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part” are vows that seems not valid to many marriages. In the United States the rate of divorce is 50%. The decision of divorce creates many negative effects on children, friends and family. Today society has created divorce as an open subject which is allowing the viewers to think that giving up and not working it out is a okay thing to do . The sad part is that this generation will barely have any couples stating a 25 - plus - year marriage.
What is Divorce? Divorce is a process in which a marriage is terminated. The relationship between the couple is broken and so is the family that has been created, what is included in the separation are friends, in laws and children. Sometimes a divorce can turn very ugly due to the dividing of items that has been shared during the marriage. A lot of anger and bitterness can come along when a divorce is created. We can blame the media showing society that a marriage is nothing but all great positive things, yet the negative hard times is often never shown. Marriage is portrait, as a female will meet the most wonderful loving male that is their prince charming is to get married and live happily ever after. We are brainwashed by movies and television shows on how a marriage is suppose to be. A marriage is not easy. Marriage takes a lot of hard work and patience for a marriage to last for a lifetime. The saying “its not who about who you found, but learning to love the one that found you.” Humans must struggle to see how strong of an individual we are to...

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... lives thinking its okay to be alone. A foundation for a child is set that is okay to just get up and walk away rather than to face and fix the issue. A child will not be consistently discipline because of the back and fort between parents. Its definitely difficult for a child to have some consistency in his or hers life.
Divorce is something that must be thought thoroughly. The consequences are greater than getting married. People will be hurt, lives are affected, and items will be divided. Half the time many people regret their decisions and realize that the first marriage was the better of the four or five they been through. We all need help and we can’t do things on our own as a team we are stronger than one individual. Selfishness is an act that will not allow you to grow as an individual. In order to succeed we must turn the M in me upside down to a W for we.

In this essay, the author

  • Analyzes the concept of 'falling' in and out of love, and explains that people often create their decision-making with feelings.
  • Explains that 70% of people who file for divorce are women. women use their emotions and selfish needs to file majority of today's divorce.
  • Opines that divorce is causing many children to grow up in a single parent home. they have to suffer the lack of role models they need.
  • Opines that divorce is something that must be thought thoroughly. the consequences are greater than getting married.
  • Opines that actions speak louder than words; vows like "i take you to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife)" seem not valid to many marriages.
  • Explains that divorce is a process in which the relationship between the couple is broken and so is the family that has been created.
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