letters of condolence

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“A condolence letter is a strange hybrid of forms. It is for the mourner, but about the deceased. It is formal, but emotional. It gestures simultaneously at the past, the present and the future. It seeks to provide solace while acknowledging that there is no genuine solace to be provided.” During the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln found himself writing letters to the love ones of many fallen Union soldiers. In the following letters of condolence, Lincoln tries to evoke emotions and memories about the decreased in the mourners by describing the type of person their lost was, Lincoln also tries to form the foundation for the process of the mourners healing by using bright and lively words, but knowing that his words arent enough for the mourners, he tells them that he was once in their situation in an attempt to let them know he knows what he is talking about.
In all three letters of condolence, Abraham Lincoln describes the fallen Union soldiers as brave and/or kind which arises emotions in his audience. In the first letter, Lincoln states that even though Col. Elmer E. Ellsworth was young, he had a “power” to command men and that this power was a combination of “a fine intellect, an indomitable energy, and a taste altogether military” by stating this, Lincoln conceives in the mind of Ellsworth’s parents what kind of soldier was their son. one can also infer that by stating this, it reveals a son who, maybe, Ellsworth’s parents didn't know. This indicates that Ellsworth was someone tough in the battlefield, which is what you need to be when you're in the field. In the second letter, Lincoln also defines Fanny’s father as “brave.” But unlike with Ellsworth’s parent who maybe didn't know the “brave” side of their son, one ca...

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...a purer and holier…” by constantly reminding Fanny that she is young and that her father’s memory will become pure and holy due to her young heart, Lincoln is brightening the tragic news for her lost. Reminding her that her agony with fade away and will turn into a “sad sweet” memory. In the third letter, Lincoln doesn't use the same strategy due to the Madame losing all five sons of hers but he does state “I pray that our Heavenly Father….and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost..” by stating this, Lincoln indicates that he hopes the madam will recover from all of her lost and remember her sons as the people they were. even though he states it differently due to the different type of audience, Lincoln delivers the bad news and is constantly using bright, lively words in order to establish a foundation to the process of the audience’s healing.

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