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I Still Hate Change Going through something new can be very scary experience for some people. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do was move. I was always afraid of the unknown, but after some trails I grew from my experience. I also thought that change just ruins everything you have worked hard for. What I didn't realize was that change allowed me to grow stronger and become a better me. In my life, I had to conquered change because it came eventhogh I didn’t want it to. Chicago was all I knew all my life. Born and raised on California and Jackson. I grew up with my mom family and those are the only people I really cared about .memories of playing Polly pockets, power rangers an watching Digimon ever the easier days of my life, I went out every day with my friends and cousin I was the youngest at the time so I got all the attention. Those trying to teach had to play double Dutch and when it got really hot opening the hydrogen’s and playing on the streets in summer I never wanted to leave this was amazing to me.I had goals and dream and at the time were the coolest I want to be a rapper/thug of course I was only eight so my thinking wasn’t really that knowledge I just toke what I saw and made it mine. When I turned eight there was a major Turing point in my life. We were moving about an hour and a half away to Buffalo Grove. I was going to have to leave everything I grew to learn and love behind. “Better schools” my mom said “it be safer” she said to me it. Sounded dumb there was nothing wrong with how were living and there was nothing wrong with the area we lived to mean any way. I was sad and scared my cousin sad it would be men white people there I never been around white only when they came to turn the hydrogen’s... ... middle of paper ... ...d mr why I never spoke to her before I was shocked I though she didn’t want to speck to me that why I never spoke to her.She told me the other thought I aas mean because I spoken to know one.That mad me think maybe all along I was the one bring this on my slef maybe beacus I was so stuck on cahinge that I didn tsee the oprrtuintes it was aloing me to have and expeice.I was so blinde ny color and afisrd of what I didn’t know that I shut out all thing diffenrt and tried to live likr I as used to . In my life, change came and I had to conquer it the best way I could. I didn’t want to accept change but in the end I found out threat it as so bad if you work with it other than against it. Now when I am faced with a change am still really nervous but I always look on the bright side. I may feel uncomfortable at first, but as I get alone it gets better.

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