Hearing Amy Cuddy’s speech has been very inspiring. I have felt identified with many things that she has said and I also have learned some techniques I want to apply whenever I have a big test, a job interview, or an important speech. My initial response to her speech has been of admiration and respect. It also has given me hope and has made me feel inspired. Amy Cuddy is not just talking to talk. As she says in her speech, she has not just learned the topic she presented, but also experienced it herself. She talks very passionately about it. She also shed some tears of joy as she was talking about her personal experience which, in my opinion, gave the speech more intensity. The main topic of her speech was how our body posture and attitude can change our outcomes. However, she also mentioned how we tend to pay more attention to other people non-verbal cues but we do not pay attention to our own. When she talked about it, I thought about myself. I consider non-verbal cues to be very powerful. On the other hand, it is true that I could talk about other people’s non-verbals in detail. In contrast, I could not talk about mine the same way because the fact that we do not see ourselves yet, our body language has the same importance than we give to others’ non-verbals. When Amy was talking about the main topic she shared some interesting data. She suggested that people who are more assertive and adopt high power positions will have better outcomes than those who adopted lower power positions. It made me reflect about what type of positions I use to adopt. As for what I am able to recall, whenever I am accomplished I tend to position myself more spread out or put my hands up which are high power positions. In contrast, when I argue with... ... middle of paper ... ...d to fake many smiles and I have had to fake assertiveness many times. Nonetheless, I do not feel anymore I am not where I am supposed to be. Now I know I was meant to go to Kettering. Now I know that although bittersweet, I made the right decision to be with the right man. In these situations, I have definitely become what one day I faked. It brings tears to my eyes but I feel happy and accomplished. In summary, Amy’s speech has inspired me. I have learned some techniques I never practiced before like the high power posturing. I want to see if I can have better outcomes thus I want and can do it. It surely does not represent a big effort to me. On the other hand, I have seen myself reflected in Amy’s words when she had to fake it when she went to Princeton before she became it as I had to do the same when I moved to USA or when I was accepted in Kettering College
She then immediately follows up with a way to fix it and demand respect. Shes trying to connect with the audience and shows that she has been in the same place, that she can relate. You can see that she has done her research, she uses plenty of statistics to give you a visual of what she is talking about as well as quoting people from organizations and giving them the appropriate credit. She mentions in 2005 at yale, her alma mater, 15 students sat in the admissions office until they were removed by police. These individuals were demanding changes to the financial aid policy.
Brene Brown main point about her speech is vulnerability. Her main point of this is to understand or know what he feel and to embrace that in us. We shouldn't brig ourselves down thinking that are emotions how we feel about things makes us weak. It makes us stronger and we realize how when we feel vulnerable we need to take action and defeat it. We also need to be aware that when people see that your vulnerability they can easily target you to bring you down making you feel less confident.
My thoughts on whose Susan Cain’s speech she was humorous, seemed sympathetic, and trustworthy. I believed and visualized her thoughts on being an introvert. She sounded passionate but not overdoing it, more subtle in a
In this video, Ann Washburn talks about how body language is a key to access our subconscious. Body language is something that demonstrates and determines who we are as a person because we send messages to others and to ourselves with our body language. For example, if a person stands with crossed arms while putting his weight on one leg, it sends out a message that the person is weak. On the other hand, if the same person stands with his hands on the side keeping the weight on both the legs, it sends a message of being confident to his subconscious and signals others that he is a strong person. Another example in the video is about our reaction to the compliments given by others to us. If a person says thank you after hearing the compliment
She used humor occasionally but it wasn't usually relevant to the actual speech. There was no use of visual aids which was fine because it did not really require any. Moving on, she discussed the things that have worked for her like making schedules and being persistent. In doing so, she related it back on how one could use her examples in order to become more efficient. She used many hand gestures which helped us concentrate on her message more effectively.
Jay used ethos, by telling the audience that she was a psycho therapist who specialized in twenty-somethings. This gave the audience the understanding that Jay has the credibility to speak on this topic. Meg then went on to list various statistics that supported her main points, such as when she said that “we know that eighty percent of life 's most defining moments take place by age thirty five” (TED Talk). These statistics are a clear usage of logos, or the appeal to logic. Many times during the presentation, Jay used the appeal of pathos, by appealing to the emotions of the audience. An example of this, is when she said “... it 's realizing that you can 't have that career that you want. You can 't have that child that you want ... ” (TED). Another example of pathos, was when Jay spoke about son 's and daughters coming into to speak to her. Jay even used mythos effectively, by talking about the desire of many to achieve the societal norms of having a successful career and starting a family. This was an appeal to the audience 's need to belong to a group. Jay 's usage of the pillars of persuasion were masterful and there are many more examples of these incorporated into this
The relaxed body language Vicky has adapted also indicates openness, kindness, genuineness reflects in her eyes, while she maintains eye contact on some occasions with Lucy, Adler and Rodman (2003) mention that the eyes are the most noticeable, when communicating and have a very powerful impact. Vicky can be seen as liberal individual because she encourages freedom of communication further her use of dress code, body language indicates this. Vicky’s paralinguistic tone was soft and friendly but, her facial expressions bring out warmth such as when she’s smiling and turning her head towards Lucy. Thus, gives Lucy the indication by judging her verbal and non-verbal meta -messages, that she can confide in Vicky and her views will be heard.
Her hand gestures are still natural, but she uses more gestures to express her emotion and the way she feels to further emphasize her story. Her facial expressions and voice tone is more vibrant and aggressive to further go along with the emotion she’s expressing and to grab the viewer’s attention to detail. She does a good job on being the main focus of her speech by not having any outside sources such as slides, note card, etc. and also keeping her body relaxed and in a natural state by not pacing around, expressing natural movements, and many other things. Throughout the speech, she puts emphasis on the word ‘articulate’ as she uses it various amounts of times to get the viewers to catch on to what she is trying to say and the message she is trying to get across. She does express humor here and there but she doesn’t use it as a focal point to keep her audience engaged, instead, elaborates on a story on why she’s
Unlike Donald, she started the evening by thanking the host, the audience and the university for sharing their place in the debate. While these are small things, they truly reflect a person’s upbringing, grooming, and understanding of social cues.
She quickly transitions to explaining how it was not only opportunity but also hard work that got her to where she was. In opening sentence she states, “I was just counseled not to be nervous, that’s almost impossible.” This was the first sentence of her speech, it opened it up with a bit of humor as the entire crowd she wass talking to laughed. The feedback she received from her audience almost gives her slight ease, she feels like she has their full attention. Being nominated to the highest court house in the nation must have really caused her excitement. As she is talking she sometimes slows down to a point where it seems she doesn’t want to lose track of what she is saying. This can be due to psychological noise she might have been experiencing while delivering her speech. The excitement of being nominated for the high ranking position would have made most people have wondering thoughts about the future that awaits
Also, it identifies furthermore other aspects around communication that we commonly don’t think of, for example; personal appearance. The way we display ourselves expresses volumes. Therefore, it also shapes our listening, and observation of what others are essentially communicating to us. You could be putting off nonverbal cues that symbolize something other than what you are essentially verbalizing. I will be utilizing this article for my research paper. I especially understood how it first broke everything down for myself, but there was a pure concept of understanding the material. I found this article tremendously
One of the main topic Amy Cuddy talked about was about communication with body language, communicating in a non-verbal way with others but as well with ourselves. Cuddy describes how one judges on other human body language and how one can make decision based on their body language. Amy Cuddy describes situations like job interviews and promotions, where humans could make decision based on someone’s non-verbal communication. Also Amy Cuddy use the example of Nalini Ambad research that states when someone watches a mute clip of a physician attending a
Anyone in the audience could’ve been hitting rock bottom, have no finances, have no nothing and her strategy to overcome only benefitted the persons that had something already. Her steps, SEE IT, BELIEVE IT and ACT ON IT, are easy to do and simple but what can someone do if they have nothing to build on. In this speech she didn’t address that, instead she went ahead and gave these steps. She also didn’t address the challenges and the difficulty in trying to do so. In the end, she did motivate but the way to make a better life was too
However, after I learn the concept, I found it is important in our lives. To talk about why this lesson was important, at first, “More time is spent communicating nonverbally than verbally” (150). For example, we will use eye contact and facial expressions to give feedback of our group presenter. It is important to let them know if we understand or not. Then “Nonverbal messages are usually more believable than verbal messages” (151). The emotion is the thing that people always cannot hide so we can know more information nonverbally. Therefore, after I learn this important lesson, I found more ways to understand and communicate with my
At first I thought I would never make it to be a motivational speaker. However, this class has really altered the perception and understanding about me as a public speaker. It has enabled me discover the potential I had in this field. At the commencement of my classes in public speaking, I thought I would be a boring public speaker, less convincing, less persuasive and would freak out if asked to offer an impromptu speech. But it has come to my light that in fact this is the field where I would want to pursue my career in, it is the field that my dream lies in. I realized that I could make excellent speeches, entertain my audience and always keep them eager to expect my next words.