Why Do Men Speak Out About Sexual Assault?

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As a society, we must recognize the barriers that men face when choosing whether to speak out about sexual assault. When these men do choose to come forward, it is important that male survivors, be believed and supported by those around them and allowed to make their own decisions about what courses of action to take. There are many reasons that male victims do not come forward and report being raped, but perhaps the biggest reason for many males is the fear of being perceived as homosexual. Sexual assault is a violent crime that affects heterosexual men as well as gay and bisexuals. Just as it affects the female gender, so does it affect the male gender.
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Little support groups can also be created, or movements be created for both men and women. Statistically, millions of men in the United States have been victims of rape. As of 1998, 2.78 million men in the US have been victims of attempted or completed rape. About 3% of American men have experienced an attempted or complete rape in their life time. One out of every 10 rape victims are men. The emotional consequence of delaying recovery from sexual assault in a man can take out to every area of a survivor’s life and the lives of those in his community. Men who do not get help risk exposure to greater physical health issues, some of which include substance abuse, chronic health conditions, societal ideation and social dysfunction, just to name a few. In discussing sexual assault, it is critically important to acknowledge male privilege and a greater prevalence of sexual abuse and assault amongst women. If progress is to be made, against all forms of sexual assault, we must recognize that men are equally victims of sexual violence in high numbers and thus, they need support too to be able to speak out rather than stay in silence and feel low about themselves and what the society will think of them if they eventually speak out. Giving a helping hand and a listening ear to men who have been or who are stigmatized, can have positive impact for people of all gender identities and expressions and thus a healthier life can be guaranteed for our children, family members, friends, co-workers just to name a few. It is understood that men are the highest gender who perpetrate sexual assault on women, but rather than

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