What Is Reflection Essay

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Soren Kierkegaard once said, “Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.” Although life may be an ever-moving conveyor headed to an eventual end; it is important to look behind us to understand what has happened. Through this understanding, we are then able to better live as we continue on this journey called life. Although not explicitly stated, Mr. Kierkegaard is speaking of the importance of reflection. It is important to reach milestones, look back, and figure out how you conquered the once seemingly impossible. Only through reflection can you then conquer the next mountain, which will surely be even bigger than the last. In a similar way, the mountain I have recently conquered is leading a group of 6 freshmen to a common goal. Even though I was well prepared and had a fairly good grasp of what would be required of me, traversing over this metaphorical mountain has shown me new parts of myself that were previously unknown.…show more content…
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