What Is Emerging Adulthood

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But waiting to choose a career or a partner or have a child – it can make you a better parent; more knowledgeable and patient and able to maintain healthier relationships…. Just overall, people make better decisions after 30…. Who really knows themselves at 20 anyway?" (Arnett). In this quote, Arnett declares that the path for adulthood has become longer, but waiting and experimenting first can make people gain experience and take better decisions in life. Throughout the years, I have seen families with different living environments. All parents have a goal which is to help their children to become adults. Growing up, I realized that succeeding or failing adulthood not only depends on the parents, it also involves economic and social aspects. …show more content…

When I realized that it was time to start building my path towards my adulthood. I asked to myself; how I am supposed to do this? And how my actions from today are going to affect my future? Jeffrey Arnett who was the first person to introduce the term "emerging adulthood" said that, "they [adolescents] do feel a great deal more independent and mature compared to when they were adolescents." (16-17) I agree with the author because, In my personal experience after turning 18 I felt different It was a feeling of superiority among younger adolescents, but at the same time I felt that I needed to be more responsible for my actions and future decisions. I was not the high school kid anymore. Speaking in terms of adulthood, it involves two important aspects which are also considered requirements in order to become an adult: responsibility and self-independence. To start my path towards adulthood correctly, I created my own definition of adulthood, which states that: once you become a person totally independent from your parents, once you realize that only you are responsible for your own life and possible life of others and once you can create and sustain a family on your own then you can consider yourself mature, not only physically but physiologically and financially. Based on my definition of adulthood, until now, I think that I am not failing to lunch, on the contrary, I am building a launch pad to succeed in my transition to

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