Mama Q The Real Crazy Asian Mother Essay

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Some parents can be really strict, and others might be more reliant when it comes to raising a child. The only similarity that is shared within all caring parents, is that they only want what’s best for their kid. I believe that stricter parents end up raising children who excel in school than parents who are more laid back. This is demonstrated humorously in,“Mama Q The Real Crazy Asian mother” video. Like most mothers and fathers that come from an ethnic background, they tend to be more elaborate with the choices they make into raising their child. In the video, Mama Q demonstrates three steps she takes into raising her fourteen year old genius son, Tommy Q. One of the steps was keeping Tommy away from any ‘brainwashing’ television shows

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