No matter how hard life can be with a mean mother she will continue to love endlessly despite of if she shows her emotional or psychological abuse actions, but she is a biological mother with a soft heart to love. Being the only daughter was not like any other family who treats their daughter like the precious thing that has ever happened to them. Being treated unlike a princess or an angel means that mother did not love. Mother would come home from work and expects to find the house clean and spotless as she would depend on female cleanliness if not then lecture would come towards the room with anger. As to mother expecting her child to clean the house, “A mean mother breaks the Child Labor Law by making her children work - washing dishes, making beds, learning to cook and doing other cruel and unpleasant chores” (How To Be A Mean Mother).
When my mom was recovering from surgery and sick I was about thirteen years old. My mother was bedridden, I had to step up and gain some independence like watch my brothers, make sure my brothers and I got up for school and take care of myself during downtimes. I began working and watching my brothers helping out around the house more. From doing that it has helped me, so I don’t have to rely on someone else I can just do things for myself. This forces you to grow up even if you are not ready to.
Our parents sacrifices a lot of things for us in their life so, children can show their love and gratitude for elderly parents by taken care of them. Another reason is that aging parents need better care which they only get at home because only their children know their parent habits; thus they can give them appropriate care. If we send them to a nursing home, they will not feel comfortable. Caregivers do not know aging parents habits, there... ... middle of paper ... ...te home care nurses; private home caregiver more serious about the aging parent .They give full attention on the aging parent, also aging parents get a new friend; they can spend a lot of time with their home caregiver, so they do not feel lonely in their child’s absent. In conclusion, children who want to see their aging parents happy, they always try to give their parent best atmosphere .Which they only can get at home .However, children should think about their aging parents what do they really want?
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In Franz Kafka’s Metamorphosis relates to how humans and their offspring are capable of changing and interpreting different life experiences in the family that can transform the dynamic bond. Metamorphosis is a story about a family who depends on the responsible child, the caretaker of the family. As the caretaker, he has a specific duty to his family and isn’t able to separate himself from it. And this is what we see in Metamorphosis with Gregor. Kafka’s shows the shifting in the structural dynamics when Gregor’s new formation changes the attitudes from supportive to neglect when his needs affect their wants, needs and lifestyle.
This may difficult given the social norm and the external factors that may leak into the family household; however, it is vital for parents and children to make family decision without considering the gender norm. In order to build a less gendered family, the parental roles must be equally balanced from the beginning and with every child. The parents should distribute the work in terms of caring for the child, doing home-labor, and working to provide income. For example, a couple could agree that they work three days a week each on different days and keep one day of the week to do family events. Also, they share the baby duties by taking turn to shower, feed, and wake up for the baby.