The World Needs a Little Courtesy
Doesn't anyone show common courtesy anymore? When I was younger, I never knew what my parents meant when I heard them ask that question. I thought people were polite. I never had any problems with rude people. Now that I am older, and actually experience people outside of school, I understand what my parents meant.
What happened to people saying "Excuse me" when they want to walk past you? Don't people know what it means when someone says this to them? When I say "Excuse me" to someone the individual stares at me as if I just spoke a foreign language or said something insulting. Then the individual still doesn't move. I don't know how many times I have been standing somewhere, and instead of someone saying "Excuse me" to get by, he or she just shoves past. How was I to know the person was standing behind me? I guess I should have used the eyes in the back of my head. I have also seen grown men push past pregnant women, elderly couples, and even handicapped people as if they weren't even there. When my boyfriend was on crutches and we went shopping, people would run into him with their carts. He had to stop and get out of their way and they would act as if it was an inconvenience to them that he was on crutches. I look out for pregnant women, the elderly, people on crutches or in wheelchairs, someone with his or her arms full, and people with children. I move out of their way. Am I just more aware of my surroundings than other people?
What happened to holding doors open for other people? I don't mean for just women, the elderly, or the handicapped. (I am a twenty-five-year-old female,...
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...ould be because parents do not have the support of the teachers and schools. Teachers are a big part of a child's life, but they are not allowed to correct a child's behavior because they could be reprimanded for doing so. If we do not teach our children to respect their elders, to help others, and to say please and thank you, then eventually common courtesy and politeness will be lost.
Did you ever realize how a reaction you get from a stranger, or even someone you know, could affect the mood of your day? Or how polite or rude that person was? Did you ever feel a little happier after doing something nice for someone? For most of us, our days are filled with stress. Being courteous to someone or smiling or saying "Thank you" might just change both of your moods. Try it sometime. It might just change your whole day. Thank you!
Flink’s Three stages of American automobile consciousness fully express the progress of the whole automobile industry. From the first model T to the automatic production, it gives me an intuitive feeling of the automobile history from a big picture. On the other hand, Kline and Pinch focus more on a certain group of people--farmers or people who live in the rural area, they use it as an entry point to talk about automobile, alone with the role and duty transition between male and
I don't feel that some people lack manners; to me its the different backgrounds that define what manners are to
Manners have always been very important to Southerners. We must respect our elders and say yes ma’am and no ma’am. Saying please and thank you are also extremely important. A child being disrespectful was not tolerated, at least not in the home where I was raised. Most of the childhood friends I had growing up were raised the same way. Everyone was expe...
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Children are allowed to have their own opinion and express it by interrupting others when speaking. In the article “Growing Up American: Doing the Right Thing”, Amparo discusses how American children express themselves, “On our way out of the air terminal, the children began to fuss. “I'm hungry”, “I'm tired”, “I'm thirsty”, “I want to go to the bathroom”” (Ojeda 231). Parents do not resent this kind of behavior, so they do not believe it is necessary to take disciplinary actions. Therefore, the child feels as if they can continue this behavior all their life; thereby creating disrespectful adults. It's not necessary to publicize what one is feeling all the time. In some cases it may be inappropriate, especially when an elder or person of authority is speaking. In America, children of any age may approach an elder as an equal. Titles are being withheld and they are allowed to address adults by their first names. Based on the article “Growing Up American: Doing the Right Thing”, Amparo emphasizes, “No titles such as “Mr.”, “Mrs.”, or “Miss” were used; we were simply introduced as “Steve this is Amparo” and “Amparo this is Paula”” (Ojeda 232). Even though this seems harmless, this is giving a child some form of power. I have to agree with the opposite cultures that elders should be respected, a child should not be able to call their teacher by their first name; that is normally considered
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According to the ABC News survey, 73 percent of Americans feel manners are worse today than they were 20 or 30 years ago. Although character education is a hot topic in schools across the nation, education in maners often receives scant attention; with growing demands on teaching time, etiquette is rarely a priority. It might be a mistake to ignore the adage that actions speak louder than words, however. Teachers who teach manners said they notice a real difference in students' attitudes, in the way they treat one another, and in their schoolwork. Although some might say that manners are to be taught from the parents, the places children learn to socialize are not only at home, but also at school; it is their second home. A child either learns different moral values from his home or from his school. These days with both of the parents working, a child rarely gets the opportunity to learn moral and social values from home. In the past, although the parents were working, grandparents took care of their grandchildren and taught them important lessons of life, however, this is no longer prevalent as more and more families get unconcerned of teaching manners to young people. Of course not all the parents are failing to teach manners, but it is surprising to see many adults who do not know the correct ways of being respectful. Then how are they to educate their children? Thus, the only way we can ensure our future generation to learn etiquette is by schools.
What we need to be taught is respect. Respect is major idea that needs to be carefully grown and cared for in children. If a child doesn’t have respect for people then they will not be able to get a job, and if they do, they won’t respect what they have and will lose it. If they don’t have respect for school then they are sure to drop out because they feel they can do without, not knowing the benefits of teaching and learning. If we don’t show our children respect, then generations to come will lose respect for things that which we hold dear. That’s why our children need to know respect is important.
In addition, these unspoken influences, our parents taught us with the fundamentals of "proper" behavior. At times when we were children, our mindset got creative and we explored a little with our freedom. We did not know that it was socially unacceptable to play with our food, to draw on the walls, to throw fits in public, or to break our toys out of anger. These rules and many more were beaten into our minds by our parents. Since these were our rules at such an early age it is often difficult to change things.
No one is genuinely concerned about anyone any more. When I was growing up people asked how you were doing and wanted to hear how you were doing. If you had a problem and they could help you with anything, they would. Nowadays if someone says Hey girl How you doing?” as a greeting to get to their topic of conversation or it’s just a simply passing by statement. It is very rare that you would find someone that would actually, want to know the answer.
People always communicate using language. In communication, people share their feeling and thought through a system which makes their interlocutors understand what they speak. Wardhaugh (2006) state people constantly choose what they want to say, how they want to say it, and the use of specific linguistic items which best for the way they say things. People need to manage their relationships with the interlocutors as well. It makes them consider who their interlocutors are, the settings in which the communication occurs, and the appropriateness of language being used.
“Sometimes it 's easy to walk by because we know we can 't change someone 's whole life in a single afternoon. But what we fail to realize it that simple kindness can go a long way toward encouraging someone who is stuck in a desolate place.” ~ Mike Yankoski
The automobile has impacted the world by faster traveling, also making it possible to go farther distances. In this society cars are used to get around but to some people, it’s a way to get around, but to some people it’s a way to express them. From loud engines to hybrids, cars mean a lot more to people than just a way to get around. It has become much more meaningful to people. It has become of a person and how they express themselves.
Culture shock occurs because most Japanese cannot easily escape from the formula "politeness= indirectness." Compared to the American way of speaking, Japanese speak much more indirectly. Directness is considered a form of impoliteness in Japan. Therefore, when we want to be polite, we speak and act very indirectly. For example, we seldom say, "I'll go to a bathroom," except when we are with close friends. Usually, we say, "I'll go wash my hands." Especially when we are at the table or with an important person, we say only, "Excuse me. I'll be back in a minute" because we do not want to remind other people of the bathroom, which is considered a dirty place, even though it is actually clean. Also, other Japanese can infer that we are going to a bathroom from this phrase. But Americans cannot. They ask where we are going since they have no idea what we are going to do: make a phone call? buy something? Yet, in this case, these questions make Japanese frustrated, wondering why these Americans do not understand our polite expression.