The Social Norm

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The social norm I will be breaking first is going to be pretending to spray Windex (blue Gatorade) into my mouth and telling customers I love the taste. I will be completing this at the Walmart in Derby. I’ll be doing this here, because I personally do not like Walmart and if I get kicked out for “harassing” customers, I won’t be bothered. I expect that at least one customer will panic and think I’m going to be poisoned and another one is going to ask if me doing this is a prank. The reactions were mostly as I expected. One older woman came up to me a grabbed the bottle from me and said “That is bad for you! You will get so sick!” then preceded to walk off. After I went over to her and told her that I was doing this for a class she laughed …show more content…

Once I had told people what was going on I then expected them to still call 911 or find a manager. Thankfully neither of those things happened, but when people got angry during our interaction, I was almost positive I would get in trouble. The reactions ended up getting tell me that people value what their children are seeing and the dangers of what could happen to a young girl if she drinks Windex. When the mother scolded me for being a bad influence it really showed me how much people care about their children. Also after the older woman took my bottle and told me how sick I could get from what she thought I was doing, that showed me adults also care about children. People care even when the child is not related to them or their responsibility.
The second social norm I am going to break is to lie on the ground in a store in a onesie, sucking on a binkie, and crying like an infant. I will be completing this at toys R us because I feel that people will think that maybe I have a disorder that makes me similar to an adult baby. I expect that if I get really fussy and start to cry that people will look at me oddly and keep their children away from me. I also expect that maybe someone will ask me where my parents

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