Adoption nowadays is quiet different, because it basically fixes all of the homeless, neglected, abused and runaway children problems and also parents who have problems giving birth. At the beginning of the adoption procedure, it may seem difficult to love the child but after a while they end up loving the adoptee just like if he was their child and this was proven by almost all the families who took adoption as a solu... ... middle of paper ... ...ilies. It will always be a solution to parents who know that they are not capable of raising their children and also to people who get pregnant due to a mistake but don't want to use abortion as a solution. Other than all of this, to some extent adopted children feel the same way we do, they get treated fairly and equally, they get the love and care they deserve, and they feel like a part of the family. However; some families feel like they don't own their child and they discriminate them, overly punish them and abuse them.
And it would save so much heart ache for the gay couples trying to adopt. Adoption not only allows some sex couples the possibility to have a child, but it also helps all the kids that don’t have a home. Many people believe that same sex couples shouldn’t raise children because they might not grow up “right”. Source C claims that hetero sexual couples raise their children better than a homosexual couple would. “Why do kids do better on every measure of social, emotional and physical well-being when they grow up with a married mother and father?” This is saying that a child will be a better person if they have mom and dad that are married to each other then what does this say about single parents or divorced parents and especially parents> children grow up as good people on every type of situation.
It is known that any trauma that happens in childhood can psychologically affect a person in their future. I respect homosexual couples and I do not judge, but I think all children should have a mother and a father. I know there are a lot of children in need of a good home and that is the only reason why this could be a good idea, but just throwing a child in any family isn’t right either, the child needs a stable family.
While many have differentiated views, adoption is globally a great thing for the countless kids in need of a loving home. Adoption is the transferal of parental rights from one person to another. “When a mother or father cannot provide a family for their child, they may give up their rights as parents to other people through adoption,” is a good example for why some people give up their child for adoption (Glotzbach 10). In birth, the parents are there the day the child is born and watch them grow up, but in adoption, the adoptive parents cannot normally be in the room with the parents as the child is being born. This is because sometimes the adoptive parents do not choose to adopt a child that has not been born yet, and instead adopt one that has.
Introduction Adoption is not about finding children for families, it’s about finding families for children” (Joyce Maguire Pavao). Same sex couples should have the same options as heterosexual couples. Who says that a gay couple can’t raise a child and they come out perfectly fine. Many same-sex couples, after a lot of struggle, have been able to adopt and have changed a child’s life.Allowing same-sex couples to adopt is a powerful step towards success and it helps in many ways, which is why same-sex couples should be able to adopt. Their love for the children is the same as not same-sex couples, there are way too many kids in adoption homes and there is no proof that “bad parenting” happens.
There are many reasons why birthparents choose adoption. Many singles mothers feel their child could benefit from having two stable parents, so they choose to put their child up for adoption. Some couples choose to put their child up for adoption because they feel they don’t have the financial resources to raise a child. Others feel they are too young or their education needs to come before children so they opt to put their child up for adoption (3). There are relatively few legal restrictions on who may adopt.
This article focuses on all the good and positive things that step fathers do for the children of the women they are with. It goes to explain that bonds, and attachment are form in a mutual way where these stepfathers treat and love the children as their own. Step parenting being a controversial topic, has been very hard to understand since in some cases the biological father is still in the picture. Usually one wants to look at an ideal family, before accepting the blended family that actually exists. Although the stepparents can be doing an amazing job raising the child, and being an active person in their life, all biological ties will be valued more.
Many people oppose transracial adoption because they believe the child won’t be able to handle racism. They contend that their parents haven’t experienced how society reacts towards the race of the child (Bartholet). Many people support transracial adoption because they believe all that a child needs is a loving family who will care and comfort them instead of living their whole life in foster care. Inter-country adoption will allow the child to feel wanted and loved, and the child will not have to worry about why their parents put them up for adoption. The door to adoption should always be opened; it should never be closed because of the color of the child or the adoptive parents.
According to family who are against this state that everyone should be parents even if they don’t have knowledge. In other words, these people believe that everyone should be parents without a license. I disagree with this parent’s view that everyone should become a parent whenever they want because there have been cases showing that some people mistreat their kids or abuse of them emotional, sexually and physically. Parents who disagree with this idea are right to argue that having a child is a natural part of human’s life, but they exaggerate when they claim that everyone should have a kid even if they don’t have the budgets. This is a problem because there are many kids suffering because some parents abuse the children or the parents are not mentally and economically stable to afford the best care for the kid.
Agencies gather information that will guarantee a “safe and stable environment, with loving and supportive parents” (“Review of Qualification …” 2). Agencies try to warrant compatibility and compassion for each child they place with adoptive parent. Rules and guidelines are not limited to agencies; birthparents and the state can also enforce their own rules. Exceptions to rules are common; however, many adoptive parents do not meet all the qualificati... ... middle of paper ... ...e numbers still climb rapidly. Society currently views making a family that isn’t biological in nature controversial.