The Pros And Cons Of Spanking On Children

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“I will beat you into the middle of next week!” or “I will whip you until your butt swell up!” or “If you play with fire you will get burnt by the belt!” or I will smack the daylight out of you!” These are some of the quotes my parents used on my brothers and me when we were kids.
Have you ever been spanked? We all have our own stories of how our parents disciplined us, we take them as funny stories and even joke about them. If you were born in the 70s, 80s, or 90s, you already know what I’m talking about and I bet many stories already ran over your minds just now. But as we grew up and time passed by, there has been this predicament about this method of parenting. “Parents feel mixed-up and uncomfortable about disciplining their children”. …show more content…

My parents spanked my brothers and me when we were younger. By the same token, a parent’s point of view on spanking has as an effective form of punishment that gets the point across to the child that they should not be doing the bad things that they received that punishment for. Also, most children are spanked from age two until almost ten years old. However, spanking has been known to lead to many emotional and physical illnesses. Not to mention, a spanking can be a violent punishment that should not be used to penalize children. The line between spanking and child abuse is very thin, and a parent could go too …show more content…

If you were to list all the things a parent wouldn’t want their kids to be doing, you would have a list of the harmful side effects of spanking. For instance, several studies have shown spanking and other forms of physical discipline can pose a serious risk to children. (Smith) As a matter of fact, spanking can lead to increased aggression, antisocial behavior, physical injury and mental health problems for children. Also, researchers looked at the effects on three detrimental behaviors in children who were spanked: non-compliance in the short term, non-compliance in the long term, and aggression. (Darcia Narvaez) Although it is hard completing these studies in the homes since spanking hardly ever occurred at all nor in front of strangers. Correspondingly, it was hard to study them in a lab due to the injunction against hurting

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