The Pros And Cons Of Relationships

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Growing up parents everywhere tell their children that they want the best for them, they want them to be happy and successful in their life. Every girl watches princess movies from the time they are little and dreams of dating and marrying her prince. As you get older you realize that this is not as easy as the movies make it seem. In the movies the girl always seems to find her prince so easily, everything always seems so perfect. Most girls will go through a boyfriend or two before they truly find their prince. Sometimes you think you found the perfect guy but after some time you realize that he may not be so perfect for you. Sometimes when you think you found ‘the one’ you soon realize you were wrong. Some people see things in others that attract them to each other but these attractions may fade away. For some people, it seems like they have blinders on so they don’t see the negative features of their loved ones. The longer you have been dating someone the harder it will be to breakup and get over them. If it was a quick relationship it should not be too hard to get over. Sometimes it may take days to get over but trust me, you can get over any…show more content…
If this is the side you are on, you typically are prepared to leave the relationship and already have your mind set on this decision. The person doing the dumping has to figure out how and when they are going to do it, whether it is over the phone or in person. Once these decisions are made, you will need to talk to the other person. Make sure you have time because the other person may want to talk and try to work things out. You have to be strong, as the other person will try to win you back. Don’t give in because you feel bad for them, instead remember the reasons why you do not want to be together anymore, whether it is how they treated you, that they cheated on you, lied to you, or this is just not the one for
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