The Perfect Woman in Our Society

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Society and people on a whole demonstrates what a perfect woman should be like. The picture of a perfect woman in our society is demonstrated in advertisements, on different magazine covers, and for just about anything that a woman is featured in. Now my question is why the pressure is so heavily placed on females to be so perfect? Women are pressured in many aspects of their lives, like how they look, their emotions, and their role as a woman.
Women in society have a certain appearance to look up to. They don’t just have to be beautiful but rather amazingly beautiful. Lisa Jervis and Andi Zeisler state in their book “bitchfest” that “Vogue long ago perfected the process of erasing overweight folks from existence – even the all-powerful Oprah was tasked with losing twenty pounds before being allowed onto the cover in 1998”(Zeisler. Pg 252). This demonstrates how perfect women are supposed to be in society. Take Oprah for instance. She is very rich but that’s doesn’t make her the woman society wants her to be. She has to follow certain beauty rules in order to be on the cover of a Vogue Magazine. This paints a picture of the high demands for women in our society. It forces women to do stuff they might not want to do.
In order for women to be perfect they have to go through different procedures and these are the necessities they must follow. According to Mail Online, Daily Mail Reporter states that “[a]side from your house and your car, ladies, what’s your most valuable possession is believe it or not, it might just be your bathroom cabinet. Because the average woman has £1,964.30 worth of beauty products hidden away inside it. That works out as 65 different jars, tubes and bottles, each worth £30.22 on average.” This shows the eff...

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...dea by having these stereotypical women as characters, and advertisements push these ideas on women by portraying different definitions of beauty, selling products, and how they should be and what they should stand for. The only way to change these stereotypes is to combat the ideas that women need to spend a lot of money on cosmetics, have a rule book in the sense of knowing how to get a guy, knowing how to keep a man happy in a household, and the fact that they need to listen to people around them in order to calculate their own self worth. All women should feel beautiful because they are confident and not just because what somebody might say or do. They should not let that change their thoughts and ideas about who they want to be and where they want to go in life. Every person is an individual and should be able to make their own choices and feel good about them.

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