The Meaning Of Love

Many people feel depressed because they feel lonely and no one cares about their lives. So, in order to end their depress is by showing your love to them.

Love don’t mean to give them what you think is best for them. Love don’t means give them pressure that you think can motivate them. Love don’t mean to have them listen to all your orders. Love don’t mean to satisfy all their desire. Love doesn’t equal to good feelings. So What is the real definition of love?

The Chinese character of Love(愛), is the combination of heart and friend. This is saying the similar things as bell hooks have said, “Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect, and trust.”(hooks)

Friend means respect. Parents cannot make the decision

Parents and their children need to take each other into account and never neglect other’s feeling. Teens have the responsibility to give something back to their parents, not just receive everything and thinking their parents owed them. Overindulgence is neglected, it will only make the children become selfish and make everyone stay away from them. Parents have the responsibility to teach the children to become self-reliance because one day the children have to live on their own. When the children don’t have the ability to live by themselves, they will be depressed by the harsh environment and end up feel hopeless and even commit

Remember the choice you make at the beginning of the paper, if you choose to break the promises you had with your daughter, then you are breaking the commitment and lose your daughter’s trust. Without commitment, there is no trust. However, Love also requires understanding, people need to stand on others’ view to look at the things and understand others’ feelings. So it is very important to have a good communication between the parents and children to reduce any misunderstanding. Since intention and impact create many miscommunication and misunderstanding that can turn love into hatred. There should be no secret between parents and their children. Parents cannot expect their children to tell all their secrets to parents when the parents just hide their secrets from the children. Within the true love, people need to give their heart to each other.

Without trust, respect, responsibility, and care, there is no true love!

With the understanding of what is true love, suicide is definitely preventable! Suicide is not like cancer that cannot be treated. Suicide is a person’s choice to live or not. Parents love the teens in wrong ways that produce a lot misunderstanding and miscommunication, which make the teens become depressed and end up commit suicide.

Home is the last place for love, without love at home, people will lose all the hope for the future and have no reason to live on