Similarities Between The Joy Luck Club And For A Daughter Who Leaves

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Amy Tan, the author of The Joy Luck Club, displays life lessons mothers pass down to their daughters through the character An-mei, while Janice Mirikitani mirrors the morales presented in Tan’s novel through her own work, “For a Daughter Who Leaves”. The Joy Luck Club follows a series of mothers and their daughters and how they perceive and react to the cultural gap between them. An-mei’s story follows her through her life in China and her new life in America. In China, she witnesses the abuse her mother goes through and eventually her mother’s suicide. She does not want her daughter, Rose, to repeat the same mistakes her mother and herself made, so she tries to teach Rose how to live a happy and full life without regrets. In Mirikitani’s …show more content…

Both An-mei’s mother and her daughter, Rose, allow others to use and step on them. Amy Tan exhibits it clearly in An-mei’s point of view when she says, “Maybe it is because she was born to me and she was born a girl. And I was born to my mother and I was born a girl. All of us are like stairs, one step after another, going up and down, but all going the same way” (215). Both An-mei’s mother and her daughter are used for other’s personal gain. They are only a tool for others, having the same ending and beginning, never being able to be more than just a step. This theme and life lesson Amy Tan presents in her novel reflects in Mirikitani’s poem. The beginning of the poem starts …show more content…

An-mei is telling her daughter how young girls are easily influenced to be weak at a young age. She says, “A girl is like a young tree... You must stand tall and listen to your mother standing next to you. That is the only way to grow strong and straight. But if you bend to listen to other people, you will grow crooked and weak. You will fall to the ground with the first strong wind. And then you will be like a weed, growing wild in any direction, running along the ground until someone pulls you out and throws you away’” (191). Women, especially in An-mei’s past, have been used and demolished for how weak they were to bend to other’s wills. She encourages her daughter to be strong and unyielding against destructive forces. The symbolism of a tree is vital because it represents a tenacious person who will not lean and fall to someone else’s desires. Mirikitani also uses symbolism of a strong, reliable plant to describe the speaker’s daughter in the

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