Some bullies may even come from bad families and that’s what makes them act the way... ... middle of paper ... ...ey are not concentrated and are afraid what the bully will do or say to them. Bullies are at risk for problems to, they may become violent and as they get older they could possibly have a criminal record. They could possibly end up loosing their group of friends as they get older. They could even ending up failing school and not having a good job when they grow up. Some bullies act they way they do because they have been hurt by bullies in the past even a parent or another adult.
When problems like this happens in home, parents take their anger out at their kids. Most parents find it difficult to understand why their kids act a certain way or why are they acting bad, but is because they don 't pay attention to their kids.
Bad Children Yelling, crying, not paying attention, not doing a task properly, these are only some of the characteristics that are used to define a bad kid in society, but they are wrong. Kids cannot be judged based on actions that they cannot control; doing so will cause negative consequences in their future. When a child is labeled a “bad kid” it is hard for them to step out of that category and is basically being sentenced to being that stereotype for the rest of their child hood. Children are easily influenced and when society keeps telling a kid that they are not good they are bound to believe it even if the reason why they are being labeled bad is for something they cannot control. Some children have certain delays or conditions
No One Likes A Bully Why do we allow children to get picked on day in and day out? Bullying is the use of one’s strength to influence, hurt, or intimidate someone. Bullying is a terrible habit, and it has been going on way to long. Schools do not take the proper action to stop bullying. It can result in injuries, death, physical damage, and some students may even develop disorder of deficiency.
This is a place where people tend to either forget or overlook when it comes to an issue such as this. In this present day, a lot of children are being abused physically and verbally in their own homes. This depends on the disposition of the parents or guardians and how they regard their children. The child is either called upsetting words and is made to believe he/she is of no importance or physical force is used on them. As distressing as this aggression is being exerted on them, they can’t retaliate and even report, due to the fact they are scared that if caught reporting, the next incident will be worse.
It is highly proven that the bully and the victim will think or even plan to commit suicide. Bullying is a big reason kids develop depression and it’s something schools can never get rid of. There’s always going to be a kid who feels the need to put other kids down to make them feel better about themselves. Once a kid gets bullied he/she is constantly reminded by that bully that they are not important and they don’t belong anywhere, and once they finally give up and starting believing what they were told they see no point to living anymore. All because they feel as if they don’t “belong” anywhere.
A child will isolate themselves from others and experience severe loneliness. Abused children are more likely to bully other children around, isolating themselves from their peers (Judith 117). They sometimes fall into the pattern of befriending people who will only betray and cause them more pain. Abuse to a child can be a source of very painful experiences. Children often handle these experiences in the wrong way.
The victim is usually reluctant in telling his or her parent, school administration, or guidance counselor. He or she feels the bullying will escalate or increase if they tell an adult about the situation. As a result, the victim of bullying becomes depressed because he or she feels helpless and hopeless to help themselves. The victim does not know what to do with the emotions and fears going on inside his or her mind which causes depression. The ability for the victim to cope with bullying becomes impossible which often leads to suicidal
Causes for being and aggressor are various, but mainly bullies happen to have a background of dysfunctional family, feeling of being inferior and last but not least, there is often pressure of peers involved. Background of dysfunctional family can have deeper and more severe effect on child than parents might admit. For instance, if name calling and physical abuse is on regular basis at home, child will consider this ordinary and will apply this “formula” on his peers or later on, on his own children. Furthermore, parents tend to not have in mind, the consequences of their actions. For example, if there happens to be fight whether verbal or physical, there are only two actions, that child might take.
Children that are being abuse and neglect have very low esteem, because of the mistreatment they receive from other individual. Some parents abuse and neglect their children, and cause them to have behavioral problem in school, home and even on the street. When children are at school, they are been bully, treat unfairly and also it cause them not to socialize with others. When they are at home parents verbally abuse them, truth name call or the use of indecent words. Also when they are on the street people look at them inappropriately and cause them to be in gangs.