The Ideal Woman By Maya Angelou's Phenomenal Woman

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The Roller-coaster The title said it all, Roller-coaster that is what my life has been like. Some highs and some lows, right now I feel that I am at a high trying to do what I can to maintain that. Everyone has their own story, it is important to know that everyone’s experiences will be different so their perception of life will also be different. I believe that is what makes us all unique people. I do feel like my story is a little different, if you put me in a room full of people I can almost guarantee no one will have a duplicate story to mine. Regardless of the ups or downs I am strong and a survivor of the trials of my life. There is a poem by Maya Angelou called “Phenomenal Woman” one of the verses reads:
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Welcome to the world little girl. So knowing this as I grew up only contributed to my leeriness in men. When I was around six my mother meet and married another man and had my two brothers. Now this husband would always get sick and could not keep a job or a roof over our heads. Contribution number two, to my men issue’s if a man has a cold I despise him and see him as weak. The funny part is she is still married to him and complains every day how all he does is lay down and say he is in pain. During my early childhood we moved from place to place with periods of homelessness, I remember one time I went to a school for one day because we had to check out of a hotel. When I got to high school I begged my mother to stay in the same place so I could graduate. After the first semester we moved, but the next school I stayed at until I graduated, a year later they moved. This motivated me to always be stable with my daughter, I hate to move and she has lived in the same house since she was born nine years …show more content…

I can't say that I regret them because I learned a lot from different situations and people. I've always had a thing for older people, I learned early, young people don't know much about life. My first serious boyfriend’s grandmother had a profound effect on me she was lovely and always took care of her household. She taught me how to cook and too appreciate a good man when you have one. The funny part is her grandson was not, but her husband was so I knew how to seperate the two. In my late twenties I realized I needed to get my self together, it was during this time I meet a man who awakened me to the type of woman I am, which is loving, dedicated and worthy of the best. We had a rocky relationship, but I knew he appreciated and cherished me. We were together until his time on this earth was over, he was taken in a tragic killing. During this time I wanted to curl up and never move again, but I couldn't, I remained strong and did what I had to do, to persevere. One of the most influencial people in my life at this time is my daughter, she is the moon and stars to me. She has made me stronger and wiser, I have learned from her to relax and enjoy the simple things in life. Spending time with family and the importance of making memories with your loved ones because tomorrow is not promised. It is because of her that I have returned to school, wanting to build financial stability for her and

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