Colleen Frainey: The Causes Of Teen Stress

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Teen Stress Today, society misconstrues the idea that people can complete 50 million tasks with dignity and balance. Unfortunately that is next to impossible even if that is what is perceived (Saunders). “Ask teens what stresses them out and they’re just as likely to list “competition for college admission” in the same breath as “competition for couches at Starbucks.” It’s not because they’re shallow, unable to discern between real angst and too much caffeine. It’s because today’s teens are truly stressed to the max” (Krackower). Teens and stress seems to come hand in hand nowadays because of the many different circumstance that increase responsibility. Early adolescence is said to be a major developmental stage in a childs life. The child …show more content…

Saunders says that “Stress really does exist in our lives.” Psychologist, Mary Alvord, with The American Psychological Association stated in an interview that, “a little stress is a good thing. It can motivate students to be organized. But too much can backfire.” An example for the backfiring side would be Colleen Frainey. Frainey was a well rounded productive student. So well rounded she decided to take all advanced courses her sophomore year of high school. She was so stressed out to the point where all of the work and stresses correlated to school was making her sick. Frainey said, “I didn’t feel good. And when I didn’t feel good, I felt like i couldn’t do my work - which stressed me out more.” Another path tells a story about a girl who was very capable of completing her work but not it the way that she felt satisfied. This girls name was Nora Huynh. Nora’s mother shared with an interviewer that when Nora got her report card back she saw that she was just shy of a 4.0. The academic pressure now a days is pushing kids to strive for the best grade possible (A’s) and therefore that may result in the child not learning to their full potential, because if you do not get an A, life is over and you will never get into college (Neighmond). To continue with the interview, Jennifer, Nora’s mother said “When she saw that …show more content…

The teenage years are as strong developmental period which may send hormones and emotions in a whirlwind and that can make it extremely difficult for the teen to function normally and comfortably. During this day in age teens are expected to do so much, and it all must be approved so it can be the most perfect it can be. Unfortunately it is just not possible and people need to start realizing that. Teen stress is a real thing, and it can be controlled, it just needs to be done in a proper way and avoided a little more than it

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