Conflict plagues our homes, our work, and most of our lives, yet, most of the conflict hardly ever affects us. This is either because the conflict is mediated to keep it from blowing too far out of per portion, or because the conflict is dealt with when it first arrives. There is also the other type of conflict that if left undealt with will plague the workplace or a home. This type of conflict is often destructive to the people directly dealing with the conflict and sometimes those who are indirectly associated with the conflict. In this paper we will be exploring the different types of conflict in some situations, some different strategies to dealing with conflict, and some strategies in dealing with conflict as a leader. By the end of this report, you should be able to successfully navigate or mediate a conflict while disarming the situation. Phenomenon Conflict resolution is a process in which interpersonal communication is used to allow two conflicted parties to reach an amicable and satisfactory point of agreement. There are some important things to keep in mind before diving head first into a conflict. There are plenty of different conflict styles (someone’s preference for how they have a conflict). Conflict styles are often learned from parents, siblings, and close friends. It is important that you are able to identify which type of style you and the conflicted have to better navigate the conflict. It is also important to remember that conflict is natural in human relationships, but it is only our skills in conflict that determine if it is constructive or destructive. Some basic points are, being able to separate the person from the problem. Being able to identify positions and focusing on shared interests. Pick and ch... ... middle of paper ... ...e other party, but determination to come to a reasonable and logical conclusion that both parties can agree on. In this report we have covered a couple different ways in which conflict can be dealt with. If these strategies are followed and general care is taken when in a conflict, they will end up positively affecting the work place or even home. Works Cited Butler, Beborah S. "Forgiveness: A conflict Resolution Strategy in the Workplace." Thesis. 2001. Report. Salami, Samuel O. "Conflict Resolution Strategies and organizational Citizenship Behavior: The Moderating Role of Trait Emotional Intelligence." Research. 2006. Report. Sherman, Rose. "Leading a Multigenerational Nursing Workforce : Issues, Challenges and Strategies." Online Journal. 2006. Article. Wood, Julia T. Interpersonal Communicatin: Everyday Encounters. Boston: Monica Eckman, 2010. Book.
Conflict Resolution: Understand to Achieve. Whenever people unite to work as a team for anything more than a brief duration, some conflict is normal, and should be expected (Engleberg, Wynn & Schutter, 2003). Because of the inevitability of conflict, being able to recognize, address, and ultimately resolve it is vitally important, since unresolved conflict may have undesirable effects, including reduced morale, or increased turnover (De Janasz, Dowd & Schneider, 2001). Just as conflicts within team environments vary, so do methods for resolving them.
In several occasions, conflict occurs in the communication of one or two people. Several people have thought of conflict as cases involving pouring of furious anger in a communication process. Nonetheless, conflict is the misinterpretation of an individual’s words or values (Huan & YAzdanifard, 2012). Conflict can also be due to limited resources in an organization (Riaz & Junaid, 2010). Conflict may as well arise due to poor communication or the use of inappropriate communication channel of transmission of information between the involved parties. Management of conflict has various conflict management styles that include avoidance style, forcing style, passive-aggressive style, accommodating style, collaborating style and compromising style. Workplace conflict comes in two different kinds: task involving conflict, which focuses on the approaches used in resolving the problem and blaming conflict that has the aspects of blame and never brings element of resolving problems between the conflicting parties. In the perception of several individuals, relationship conflict is negative.
It is a process that occurs over time. It is also an outcome, a synthesis of different perspectives, an integrative solution. It is important to remember that conflict is a natural and expected part of collaboration. Conflict provides an opportunity to deepen agreement. The strategic use of conflict resolution skills and goodwill power can be effective in enhancing decision quality and team commitment.
I think that a conflict is a problem or disagreement between two people or groups. A conflict can be small, like the argument between Dally and Cherry at the movie theatre, or it can be bigger, like when Johnny got beat up by a group of Socs. The way that I respond to conflict changes depending on the situation; if the problem was small and easily fixable, I would try to work things out with the person involved in the conflict; if it wasn't too important, I might try ignoring it and hoping that the problem goes away. If the conflict was more problematic and had to be fixed, I would probably go talk to someone else who wasn't involved so that they could help me figure out what to do. To resolve a conflict, you could try talking to the person and explaining your point of view to reach a compromise instead of ordering what you want and unilaterally deciding how the situation is going to play out. Also, you could try to speak to someone else about the problem and have them help you work it out. The most important thing to remember when resolving the conflict is to stay calm and listen t...
Understanding the definition of conflict, along with the approaches to conflict that should be avoided, and effective conflict management strategies would allow one to use effective interpersonal communication skills to address conflicts effectively.
Conflict Management is an apparatus for dealing with complicated differences in a facility to bring about a better and peaceful outcome (Shabbir, Atta, & Adil., 2014). When there is a lack of communication or miscommunication between people, things can become complicated and create issues causing conflict. This paper will educate the reader on conflict management,
Conflicts situation can happen at any time. There are many different ways to handle conflict situations. To strengthen our skills in responding to conflicts situation we must understand the various conflict management style. The five styles of conflict management style include: Competing, Avoiding, Accommodating, Collaborating, and Compromising. The competing style is like a shark, a competitive approach to ensure only your views counts. Avoiding is like a turtle, avoiding every situation and giving up. Accommodating is like a teddy bear, working against your own goals to move forward. Collaborating is like an owl, working together with your partner to achieve both your goals. Compromising is like a fox, negotiating half your goals in order
Conerly (2004), further states two things attribute to the way conflict is managed. One is the importance of meeting your own goals and the other is the importance you attribute to relationships and wanting to get along with others.
Four sources of conflict presented by Lamberton & Minor (2014) are content, values, negotiation-of-selves and institutionalized will be discussed. Awareness of and knowing what causes conflict is important in strategizing ideas and plans to resolve them. Explanations and examples of these four sources will follow. The outcome and process of resolving conflict can affect what direction and success we achieve personally and
Interpersonal conflict is very common with many relationships. It occurs when two people can not meet in the middle or agree on a discussion. Cooperation is key to maintaining a healthy debate. More frequently; when dealing with members of your own family, issues arise that include conflict and resolution. During this process our true conflict management style appears “out of thin air”. (Steve A. Beebe, 2008, p. 191).
The conflict theoretical perspective, created by Karl Marx, is when a person in a position of power, ruling class, controls a person, such as the Bourgeoisie, to extract value from the working class of society, such as Proletariat. Alienation is the reason why this perspective is to become possible. An example of Alienation is when a proletariat is suffering in life and does not have possession of materialistic or non-materialistic items. The desire for Alienation changes the cultural, educational, and emotional sociality. This focuses as an advantage of producing talent and increasing profits for the ruling class.
Many people enjoy working or participating in a group or team, but when a group of people work together chances are that conflicts will occur. Hazleton describes conflict as the discrepancy between what is the perceived reality and what is seen as ideal (2007). “We enter into conflicts reluctantly, cautiously, angrily, nervously, confidently- and emerge from them battered, exhausted, sad, satisfied, triumphant. And still many of us underestimate or overlook the merits of conflict- the opportunity conflict offers every time it occurs” (Schilling, nd.). Conflict does not have to lead to a hostile environment or to broken relationships. Conflict if resolved effectively can lead to a positive experience for everyone involved. First, there must be an understanding of the reasons why conflicts occur. The conflict must be approached with an open mind. Using specific strategies can lead to a successful resolution for all parties involved. The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument states “there are five general approaches to dealing with conflict. The five approaches are avoidance, accommodation, competition, compromise, and collaboration. Conflict resolution is situational and no one approach provides the best or right approach for all circumstances” (Thomas, 2000).
Before understanding how to deal with conflict, one must understand what conflict is. Conflict can be defined as, “any situation in which incompatible goals, cognitions, or emotions within or between individuals or groups lead to opposition or antagonistic interaction” (Learning Team Toolkit, 2004, pp 242-243). Does the idea of conflict always have to carry a negative connotation? The growth and development of society would be a great deal slower if people never challenged each other’s ideas. The Learning Team Toolkit discusses three different views of conflict: traditiona...
workplace include greater total resources, greater knowledge band and a greater source of ideas. However, these advantages can also bring on conflict within teams and the entire workplace. Varney (1989) reported that conflict remained the number one problem within a large company. This was after several attempts were made to train management in conflict resolutions and procedures. However, the conflict remained. The conflict possibly remains because the managers and leaders did not pay attention to the seriousness of the issue. In order to maintain an effective team, leaders and team members must know and be proactive in the conflict resolution techniques and procedures.
We each possess unique ideas, opinions, beliefs, and feelings about specific situations in life. This uniqueness is a large part of what makes us human. Because we all have our own individual way of looking at things, we each have a different viewpoint on what is proper or improper. With all that variation in society conflict is inevitable! Conflict is antagonistic in nature and we all must find ways to work through conflict issues both at work and at home. This paper describes different types of conflict, the influences I personally had in learning to deal with those conflicts, some of the conflicts that I commonly experience, how I go about dealing with those conflicts, and how conflict affects me on a personal level.