The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank

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Relationships and Teenagers

What makes Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl so touching is that Anne Frank was not any different from a typical teenager. Anne Frank has the common teenage debates with her parents, as well as the thoughts of being an self-regulating girl hoping to fall in love, just as most teenagers do today. Anne had relationship issues with her mother, other members of the household, and of course, boys. In our society today, teenagers experience these same issues as Anne had while being held captive in the Secret Annex.

Throughout the duration of the novel, Anne expresses her deep hatred for her mother, Edith Frank. Mrs. Frank is seen as a cold and tactless mother, according to her daughter. Anne accuses her mother for instigating their dynamic relationship. Anne thinks there is nothing motherly about her, and she often wishes she had an affectionate, warm mother to turn to. It is said that ALL teenagers go through a rebellious era of their life against their parents. Every child wants to be independent and exercise the power they hold. Sometimes when people are struggling with school or relationships with other people, teens take out their anger on their parents. Anne wanted to break away from her parents controlling every decision and steps of her life. She realizes that her mom is not being a very good mother, and teenagers today think parents do not comprehend what world they live in. Also, teens rebel against their parents by being sassy and disobeying them in order to show that they can make their own choices/decisions, just like Anne Frank, who wrote in a feisty tone and did not respect her mother. Anne Frank and other teenagers often rebel against their parents since they feel like they should be ...

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..., that it becomes a “no matter what” situation. This can be problematic because in their desperation, they may choose a boyfriend or girlfriend that may not be in their best interest, or they may fail to take into account that being in a relationship takes hard work and some sacrifice. While teenage romantic relationships are difficult, they are a necessary part of growing up in our society, as is the process of ending a relationship as a teen.

Overall, we can conclude that teenage relationships in our society today are very similar to Anne Frank’s occurrences in the Secret Annex. Anne was an ordinary teenager who had parent issues with her mother, frustration issues with Mr. Dussel and Mrs. Van Daan, and love issues with Peter. Teenagers go through the same journeys as Anne Frank, because ALL teens find reasons to rebel, hate, and love with other people.

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