The Code Of Gender: Identity And Performance In Pop Culture

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Many companies spend over millions of dollars advertising every year, and these advertisements influence how an individual thinks and acts in a society. It becomes a significant aspect of our lives whether it has come to our acknowledgment or not. It influences us to the extent we believe the information presented in the media are “normal”. To be precise, advertisements create and define the social norms. These concepts are strongly built into my mind since a young age, especially the gender roles between men and women. I have been brainwashed since I was young into believing the set of expectations for men and women. As shown in The Code of Gender: Identity and Performance in Pop Culture, advertisements promote the helplessness …show more content…

I believed that men should always take the initiatives in most situations, such as invitations and proposals. When I am interested in a man, I would only provide hints but never take the actions, remaining in the passive position. Many advertisements I saw include men proposing to women with a diamond ring, and I thought it should never be the opposite. Though after enrolling this class, I am starting to shift my idea of gender roles, most of the concepts are deeply rooted in my mind. Jhally (2009) discusses that it would be against the norms for females to do what a males, just as males would not show femininity. If I grew up in a different culture where media promotes a different concept, perhaps the exact opposite of ours, I would act entirely unlike and my ways of interacting would not be the same because advertisements are essentially our culture. The gender roles presented in the media influence our action, and it is an abnormal concept that has been integrated as part of our …show more content…

I believe advertisements convey the ways we should act. Although sometimes it may not be how we prefer, it is crucial to act accordingly to maintain constancy within hegemonic ideas (Ravelli and Webber 2016). I may be trained from a young age to take responsibilities for household tasks, I never preferred it, but it was necessary to maintain constancy. This is considered as emphasized femininity (Ravelli and Webber 2016), not from the physical aspect, but the anticipations for women. It has become the alternative way to be submissive – instead of knee bend, women serve the men by doing chores for

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