Though these styles of parenting may be appearing to one’s judgement, most parents hope for the same end result for their kids as an independent, resilient and successful child. Believe it or not, it is not how to get there but it is achieving that goal that matters. A good parent is one who nurtures for their offspring and assures they are raised in a respectable environment. Which parent will you
Therefore, it is very important for parents to help their children develop healthy levels of self-esteem. There are many things parents can do to help their children learn that they are lovable, capable, and competent, beginning when their children are at a very young age. Unfortunately, it is also at a very young age that children can begin to develop low self-esteem. Parents must be very careful not to plant the seeds of low self-esteem in their children unknowingly. Children learn their first lessons about self-esteem from their parents.
Actions speak louder than the voice. This means that you should put in practice all the things that you are telling to the child because this will make more of an impact on them. Parents should be the role models of their child, so they should act in the way that they are expecting their children to act. Rewarding the good behavior of the child does not mean that you will give him something materialistic like cookies or toys every time they follow an instruc... ... middle of paper ... ...ld tends to be more spoiled because he/she is able to have more access to material things. The parents should teach their children that not everything is about the money and that they have to work hard to be successful in life.
A child should be scolded for whatever they have done wrong and in return taught the right way in which it should be done. A good parent shows love and affections to his or her child. Children need to feel loved by their parents, it creates a sense of safety, comfort and trust between the child and his or her parent. A good parent is a role model to his or her child; parents should portray all the good characteristics of a good parent. Being a positive role model for appropriate behavior is more effective than specific disciplinary measure children learn through observation and often mimic the behavior of their parents.
Planning ahead to take time to talk to your children and ask insightful questions is always a good idea. Parents also need to learn to encourage their children. Many parents discourage their children in order to get them to succeed, but this idea is flawed. Instead, parents should encourage their kids but checking their attitude and learning to use kind words when they address their children. Parents need to remember to follow with kind actions and cheer their child on to their goals.
Parents must allow their children to grow, even if their actions lead them down a dark, unknown path. Parents, for the most part, want their children to have their experiences so that they understand where they’re coming from. However, everyone is unique and it is best to allow children to develop their own experiences. Let children scrap their knees and get knocked down. In the end, they’ll develop into a strong individual, so long as the parents continue to show love in a patient, non-spiteful manner.
The family of the child with a learning disability must adapt to fit their child or sibling’s needs. There is a difference for mothers and fathers as they assume their new lives. No one expects for his or her loved one to have a disability but through natural and formal support the individual can have a full life that meets his or her level of development. It is a difficult time of adjustment for the child but the family also feels the impact of the child’s new life. There are stages that a family goes through as they come to terms with this adaptation.
Why do kids need parental love? The kids future are depending on their parental love and how they are going to act or communicate with other people they are going to meet in life. Parental love is really important to kids because it will shape them into who they are in the future. It gives the kids the sense of love and how important it is to have someone we care for right next to us. There are kids that do not know who their parents are or they do not get their parental love even though they live with their parents.
Motivation through praise is one of the ways parents can encourage children to do their best as it allows one to gain a greater self-confidence. Descript... ... middle of paper ... ... their contributions are worthy and appreciated. This appreciation they receive upon completion of tasks develops one’s confidence as they desire to strive for excellence. This confidence remains with them throughout their life allowing children to take on situations with the mindset to endeavor for success. Although parents are providing children with various opportunities to develop responsibility and self-belief, it is important that parents do not rescue children.
Another rather consistent observation I saw was the indication that most children used their parent as a secure base. A secure base is provided through a relationship that harbors one or more responsive caregivers who meets the child’s needs and to whom the child can turn to as a safe haven, when upset or distraught. This relationship can be seen in many of the observations I made. The one that stands out the most and that clearly depicts how a child uses a secure base is Susy. Susy used her parents as secure base when she was frightened by the boy that was older than her and whom she didn’t know.