Summary Of This Boy's Life By Tobias Wolff

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Wolff’s sombre memoir This Boy’s Life explores and challenges the relationship between a mother and son, displaced and forced to flee during the turbulent post-war America. Chased by power-hungry and controlling partners while seeking freedom and a change in “fortune”, Rosemary and Toby soon discover that not all is as easy as it seems. Despite many hardships, whether they may be being abandoned by Toby’s father, refusal to punish Toby or a dangerous but promising potential husband Rosemary shows true determination in finding them a happy future highlighting the unbreakable bond the two share. Toby experiences great emotional anguish at the age of eight when his father abandons him, forcing him to flee with his mother, Rosemary. This awful …show more content…

Rosemary’s constant encouragement and confidence in Toby is what ultimately helps him survive his time in Chinook. However despite this her avoidance of punishment and her unwavering belief that ‘he didn't do it’ ultimately hurts Toby. Rosemary’s unwillingness to reprimand Toby stems from her own experience with punishment by ‘Daddy’. She ‘doesn't see a need for it’ but Wolff conveys through the tone of the text that that is exactly what Toby needs. Toby’s lack of a sense of guidance and clear boundaries illustrates his inability to observe the consequences of his actions and so he is doomed to repeat them. This creates a paradox in the character of Rosemary who, while desperate to do what is best for her son is constantly doing the single thing that is hurting him the most. Through this a second paradox is created. While the readers constructs the character of Dwight to be cruel and spiteful he is the one to finally introduce order into Toby’s life. This apparent inversion of the characters influence on Toby may seem to depict Rosemary as a cruel person. However the reader tends to ignore this as Wolff clearly conveys the juxtaposition of how much Rosemary loves Toby and how much Dwight despises

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