Summary Of The Comfort Of Strangers By Willow Wilson

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On another note, we have a young lady who moved from Colorado to Cairo. In “The Comfort of Strangers” by G. Willow Wilson, this young lady has “converted to Islam” and wanted to spend time getting to know the language and culture that was associated with her religion. In her case she moved from the U.S. to a country that had many rules and regulations when it came to the religion and culture. For example, when she moved to Cairo she had to adjust to the fact that men and women were traditionally segregated in a lot of public and private settings. She found it very difficult when traveling because on the trains in Cairo the women was separated from the men. If you happened to board the train in the men’s cart and you were a women, then you would

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