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The media has over-represented many groups in negative ways such as sorority girls. Based on how sororities perform their activities, it has been portrayed by the media in an exaggerated way with negative stereotypes about them. In the movie Step Sisters, it is about a girl named Jamilah that is president of her sorority Theta, captain of her step dancing crew, and works for Dean Berman in Student Affairs. When the partying white girls from Sigma Beta Beta embarrass the school by a video going viral online of one of the members having sex on their lawn, the dean orders Jamilah to fix the big problem since she understands Greek culture. The dean tells Jamilah to make the mess go away by creating a distraction of making SBB look like positive …show more content…
In one scene, where Jamilah goes to talk to SBB while they are having a meeting, Danielle who is the president of SBB, talks to Jamilah about rehearsal space. Danielle says, “stomping on concrete...should I send you my chiropractor bills” (Step Sisters)? As two members from SBB follow saying, “yes, and it’s killing our pedis. And our knees” (Step Sisters). The viewer believes from this that they want to be treated as barbies and they are way too girly because people who step dance always stomp on concrete. This shows how SBB is being too feminine because they are complaining about their pedis being ruined and knees being killed. The way SBB’s meeting room is decorated everything in pink is further evidence that sorority girls only like pink. As viewers see a room decorated all in pink, people assume they are all girly girls because pink is a feminine color. We can see how this creates the impression of sorority girls being too feminine. Banna states in her article that one of the main stereotypes she hears a lot is “all sorority girls are girly”. According to Banna, “most chapters have a variety of unique girls [and] there are different girls in every sorority, that’s what makes them unique” (Banna). This shows that the media represents sorority girls as all being the same and being too girly when in reality everyone is different in each chapter. It might be true that there might be a few girly girls in …show more content…
In the movie, as SBB walks into a bar, two men start saying mean things about them getting around. Right as they walk in a man says, “Hey, SBB. There’s a ficus in the corner start screwing.” Then another guy says, “Oh, where’s Tyler? He’s gonna get some!” The man replies, “I thought Devin nailed her!” The guy response back saying, “I think they both hit it!” Lastly, everyone in the bar shouts, “SBB, STD” (Step Sisters). This scene at the bar creates the diption that sorority girls get around with plenty men and are disrespected by being seen as sluts. This gives a false belief to the viewers because not all sorority girls are getting around with every guy as others are. According to Ross, “most greek interviewed agreed sororities are more promiscuous than non-Greeks. Some explained ‘slutty’ actions stem from their tendency to go out and drink more, as well as regularly interacting with fraternity brothers at parties” (Ross). The way media overrepresents sorority girls seen as sluts is false. Just because sorority girls drink and interact with fraternity brothers at parties people start assuming they are hooking up. Just because someone hangs out with the opposite gender doesn’t make the assumption that they are sluts. This stereotype might be true to a few individuals from sororites, but it does not portray sororites as a
At a young age I knew as an African American woman through activism, educational autonomy, and community service, I can thrive through the wake of extreme poverty and turmoil faced by the people of my neighborhood of East New York. My interest in Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority Inc., would be based solely on their ethical standards, history, and values they are founded upon. The ladies of this organization exude exemplary character who excel in sisterhood, respect, honesty, accountability, and integrity. Throughout my life I always encouraged myself to have these ideal characteristics without knowing that one day I would be pursuing membership in a prestigious organization, whom upheld the key principles “greater service, greater progress. The first
I myself am from a very “awkward” dichotomy. The reason for that is that I grew up in Oak Cliff Texas, a low socioeconomic neighborhood with the a very criminal atmosphere. However, my father was able to obtain upward mobility through his construction business that he built, therefore I have always been financially well off. Since I grew up in Oak Cliff and attended an inner city public high school my classmates were mostly of low socioeconomic background and well, the nature of their behavior is very much like mine. Now when I attended A&M I decided to join a fraternity. There is “Latino” fraternities available for students to join on campus but I joined one that is recognized by the IFC (Intra Fraternity Council). This is one of the barriers amongst universities’ Greek life systems themselves. As described in the book, Greek life systems generate a barrier where students of low socioeconomic status find it harder to join. The fraternities and sororities that are recognized by the “IFC” are those that are categorized by the student body as “cool or better” organizations. Those that aren’t recognized by the IFC are seen as the “poor or gay” organizations. Those fraternities that are recognized by the IFC on campus as far as I know are all white. Latino or Black fraternities and sororities aren’t recognized by the IFC, at least at A&M. I am the only Minority in the fraternity that I am apart of, and I sometimes recognize that I am different in different aspects than most of the members and can feel the “isolation” that is described in the book. Once my fraternity was having an event and everyone was required to pitch in 30$ towards supplies for it, and the way that the money is gathered is through a mobile application where people can pay with their credit cards. I asked one of my fraternity brothers is I could just pay him cash and he
While reading Pledged: The Secret Life of Sororities, I learned more about the inner workings of Greek Life. I learned that the odds of me finding a sorority are so slim due to my independent and different personality. While I am not good at sticking up for myself, something this book has made me feel is crucial to blend in and conform to an ideal to fit into a sorority, I am too opinionated. There are not many sororities (at least shown in Pledged) that welcome girls who are different, preferring to stay similar. For example, each pledge class would soon like identical within a few months of pledging. Another thing I learned about is the careful planning and manipulation that occurs throughout sororities,
I am seeking membership in Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated to be a part of a sisterhood that leads and serves. I would love to join a sisterhood that serves the community, promotes academic achievement and builds self-esteem in students of all walks of life from primary to adulthood. In addition, I wish to expand my public service through educational development. As an educator, serving children and families through toy drives and youth mentorships would afford me countless opportunities to give back beyond the walls of my classroom, dance stage, and church. With my dedication, compassion, and creativity, I know I will work diligently to produce a strong impact on the sorority’s current programs and aid to create new
Greek organizations, such as, fraternities and sororities have been a part of the college experience for centuries. We pride ourselves in brotherly and sisterly love, academic success, and helping others. There are countless stereotypes and myths that surround the “Greek life” name. Just some myths include: all Greeks haze their members, they only care about physical looks not personalities, and they go to college just to party and get drunk. Kappa Delta Sorority upholds none of these stereotypes. We have a strong no haze policy. Hazing is defined as an activity or situation that can cause emotional, mental, or physical discomfort. If a member is caught hazing or if a new member is caught allowing herself to be hazed, there will be major consequences, such as, national probation or deferral of initiation. Kappa Delta also does not look at physical appearance as the only quality for possible new members. We look at personality and qualifications that can benefit our sorority; instead of having a group of women that are pretty and popular, we like to have women with strong morals, work ethic, and have the willingness to love each and every member of Kappa Delta. Kappa Delta Sorority is like no other fraternity or sorority on campus; we do not waste our time with partying and drinking. We pride ourselves in our historical background, philanthropies, and our values. I know Kappa Delta is the best sorority not only on MTSU campus but in the whole country.
A Dynamic Individual with Vitality and Attitude…these are the characteristics of a true DIVA. I never knew the real meaning of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated until I attended college. While I was a student in middle and high school, the lovely women of Delta Sigma Theta seemed intangible to me. I admired them and wanted to one day follow in their footsteps. The way they spoke, how they carried themselves, the respect they demanded and the attention they received just by walking into a room was mind boggling to me. And from those short encounters I knew I wanted to be apart of this prestigious sorority, but now I know why I need to be apart of this extraordinary organization.
"Some have argued that fraternities are places where rape is likely to occur on college campuses and that the students most likely to accept rape mouths and be more sexually aggressive are more likely to live in fraternities and sororities, consume higher doses of alcohol and drugs, and place higher value on social life at college." according to the article "Fraternities and Collegiate Rape Culture: Why Are Some Fraternities More Dangerous places for Women?" written by A. Ayres Boswell and Joan Z. Spade. The article ...
As the end of spring semester of my freshman year approached, I was overcome with both joy and relief knowing that soon I would be done with finals and, more importantly, I would soon be completing my slightly long and extremely dry initiation process and finally be allowed to called myself a sister of Sigma Delta Tau. Even though I was beyond excited to become a sister, I couldn’t help but feel weird about the entire situation. Up until the day I decided to rush, I never in a million years would’ve thought that I, of all people, would join a sorority. Even though I had come to terms with the fact that I was in fact meant to be a sorority girl, I was still unsure of how to tell my friends and family back home that I was a sister. In high school, I’d always
Day in and day out we hear about high school and college students wanting to pursue a sorority and/or a fraternity based on the stereotypes these organizations uphold, well I chose to differ. I told myself if I ever decided to become a member of a sorority it would be based solely on their ethical standards, history, and values they are founded upon. Alpha Kappa Alpha, Incorporated consists of ladies of distinction and exemplary character who excel in scholarship, leadership, and service, which are qualities I have chosen to uphold. From my perspective, I encourage myself to maintain a respectable appearance and reputation which doing so inspires me to embrace my self-concept; which helps me confidently excel academically and professionally as a “lady of distinction” and “exemplary character.” Most importantly, I continuously remain involved in community service, being involved allows me the opportunity to learn and understand the lives and circumstances of others by opening my mind, heart, and soul. Overall these qualities strengthen my passion to be a member of the prestigious Alp...
In "Fraternities and Collegiate Rape Culture" Ayres Boswell and Joan Z. Spade analyze the social perspective of the gendered relations in male fraternities that add to the high rate of violence against women on many college campuses. They list a host of factors that distinguish higher-risk from lower-risk atmospheres discussing the rates of rape in colleges and state how "1 out of 4 college women say they were raped or experienced an attempted rape" (217). Additionally, "1 out of 12 college men say they forced a woman to have sexual intercourse against her will" (Boswell, Spade 217). In other words Boswell and Spade indicated that the rates were high when it came down to women getting raped in colleges by men who also attended those colleges. In addition, Boswell and Spade specify in how most people are aware of rape but know very little about rape culture (Boswell, Spade 217).
The Hunting Ground, a popular documentary publicized by Lady Gaga and former Vice President Joe Biden, highlighted the role collegiate fraternities play in creating a culture of sexual violence. In fact, Sigma Alpha Epsilon gained the notorious pseudonym of Sexual Assault Expected for the frequent acts of sexual assault associated with their fraternity (Scully). Although the documentary highlighted just one specific fraternity, it also discussed the pervasive culture of sexual violence in fraternities across the nation. Like all social organizations, fraternities possessed a culture designed to reinforce certain behaviors. The culture of collegiate fraternities encouraged sexual assault through peer pressure, substance abuse, and college administration
Walking up dilapidated stairs, my friend and I enter into the chapter room of Beta Sigma Psi, where the Little Sisters of the Gold Rose meets every week. The fraternity house smells of stale beer and sweat, and has clear signs of past parties and shenanigans. However, we have officially become activated members of the service sorority and were attending our first chapter meeting with the entire sorority. In that chapter room we discussed future service events, volunteering opportunities, and then went around the room for anyone to share news and announcements with the group. It was at this moment that I felt like a true active member in LSGR, when everyone was interested in hearing about each other’s lives and wellbeing. While as a rushing
In the short story, a young lady is ready to go along with any humiliation just to be apart of a prestigious high school sorority. The reward for passing this initiation is that she gets to be in one of the groups that prides itself on its members being the same; which this is what she doesn't even want.
Most people visualize sorority girls as snobby, disciplined, and intelligent. This image of them is frequently seen in movies and television shows. My friend Lisa is much friendlier and barely gets involve in house activities or conforms to their regulations. Snobbery is simply one aspect of the sorority girl image they accomplish this task by interacting with a selective crowd. Which consists of girls from the house, fraternity boys, and possibly family. The frat boys serve as potential dates; usually there is a variety of dates to chose from. A sorority girl would never think of picking up a man on the street, on the other hand, theirs my friend Lisa. It’s obvious that she’s friendly to just about everyone that’s how she met her current
When females engage in hooking up the expectation is things will lead to a relationship, whereas males do not expect this (Stinson, 2012). Females are also concerned with the reputation following a hook up and males not so much (Allison &, Risman, 2013). The reasoning is males and females are held to different standards (Stinson, 2013). It was reported however, students are starting to lose respect for both genders who partake in hooking up, so males are now concerned with their reputation as well (Helm et. al, 2015). It is also thought when campuses or social activities are male dominate different attitudes can be seen from both genders (Allison &, Risman, 2013). One example mentioned was the engagement of college male’s in Fraternities. The popularity gained from participating increase one’s power to influence other students on campus. When this happens the disrespect of females who hook up increases and if the female does not conform to the social norm she is considered an outcast. Finding a balance between the two can be difficult for females (Allison &, Risman, 2013). There are some differences and similarities seen in college male and female attitudes as it relates to hooking up, but there is more researcher needed to explore