Stacy Wilkins's Essay 'Stop Ordering Me Around'

Being respectful to workers is a virtue everyone should have. It is not something you should do but it is a courtesy of respecting others. As a waiter it is already difficult to live the life some waiters are experiencing. Not everyone in this world is as lucky as you. Many customers see waiters as a servant and they treat them as if they themselves were a king and queen living in a palace.

In an essay, “Stop Ordering Me Around” by Stacy Wilkins, has a quote that says “I deserve respect whether I remain a waitress or move on to a different career.” This quote from my perspective is really meaningful and many people could relate to it. As a waiter, you never know what to expect. Some days will turn out really well but some days would feel like you have just worked for hours after hours nonstop. There were days when customers disrespect and yell at you and all you could do is accept everything they say because you are supposed to provide good customer service. I believe that waiters are humans too and because of that, we all deserve the same respect.

During an afternoon, on a rainy day, a group of 8 came in, and I assisted them to a table. They called out, “waiter”! I walked over there and took their order. When the food was cooked, I brought their food to the table, and they would complain how small the portions were and it was not enough to feed a group of 8. I carried a few plates back and forth to the kitchen, but came out with the same portions. They continued to complain and said, “I want to speak to the boss.” I told the boss and he had a short chat with the customers. The customers ate silently and asked for the check. As usual, I asked, “Would you like dessert?” They stared at me with frustration in complete silence and I handed them their check. They paid and left. Not only did they not tip, they barely touched the food, and it was wasted. I believe that waiters are humans too and we are all out here trying to