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“Brrr,” that was the first thought that went through my mind as I awoke on that gloomy fall day. It was the round up day and the whole family was getting geared up to help my crazy uncle drive his cattle five miles off their almost dirt pasture, to his house just north of Staples Minnesota. Though some had driven lots of cattle before at fenced in pasture, there was just something that worried me about driving the rowdy cattle right down the middle of the highway.
My family consisted of me, my father Joe, my mother Heather, and my little brother Jared.. My sister Hannah didn't come along due to the fact that she couldn't get the time off work. My father was a good horsemen and cattleman before I was even born and his skill showed when I would just sit and watch him as a kid. My mother had always had a horse growing up and she knew how to ride very well, the cattle part of things was the only rusty thing about her. My brother was scared and didn't know what he was about to do being that it was his first time ever riding a horse solo, and Mom was worried about having him learn while doing something difficult like a cattle drive on the highway. Dad insisted though that it was his time to learn.
It was ten a.m. when we pulled into the pasture to meet up with my uncle and his family, which consisted of uncle Mike, aunt Mary, and my cousin Matt with his girlfriend Tessa. My uncle was a childhood friend of my Dads and they did everything together like brothers, he was good on a horse and with cattle just like my Dad. My aunt was my moms sister and she was also good an a horse but rusty with the ways of cattle. My cousin on the other hand was excellent on horseback and could maneuver it like a pro and at the same time see and understa...

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...hat the house meant the end, and it was pushing him to work harder and faster right up till the pine wood gate closed on the cattle. Hearing the steel latch fall into place was when we knew that we had successfully done a five mile cattle drive through the heart of Minnesota and made one heck of a memory.
After I experienced and observed all the events and actions that make up a cattle drive I have an even greater respect for those who back in the day did it for a living. It is a hard life to live being away from family and friends with just you and the dusty trail making your way slowly to a destination. I would do it all over again and again to reobserve the ways everything played out and the beautiful environment that I got to see, hear, feel, smell, and touch from a natural perspective. It wasn't just out of a car window, but right out within my grasp.

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