Sherry Turkle Alone Together

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Authenticity Humans, who are impossible to be perfect, have some traits, qualities and identities that they dislike. Butchering names, getting nose surgery and erasing symbol of original ethnicity, are different ways people cover the parts they prefer not to have. “Covering” is introduced by Kenji Yoshino as “to tone down a disfavored identity to fit into the mainstream” (293); it is also promoted by the pervasive technology: the performance of covering can be through nameless postings on websites, virtual internet personae. Authenticity means to be genuine, but since people are constantly covering themselves because of social pressure, it is less possible for them to be authentic. In Sherry Turkle’s essay: “Alone Together”, she worries about …show more content…

Although covering to assimilate is attractive because it brings us happiness, success and safety, being authentic is important because otherwise we will lose our true selves (our lifestyles, behaviors and real relationship with humans). Human identity becomes merely a performance. In order to be the central of the lives, people have to hide their unique characteristics to be accepted by the society. In the essay, Yoshino talks examples of different humans are outside the mainstream in some way but are eager to follow the mainstream. Most of them surrender to the mainstream and betray what they really are. Lawrenee Mungin, an African American who spent most of his life to be a “good black” and showed people his kindness. “When wearing a suit, Mungin received friendly nods from his neighbors in the suburbs of Alexandria, Virginia. When dressed for the gym, he saw the same neighbors tense up and clutch their purses. Mungin also engaged in affiliation-based covering, stressing his double Harvard pedigree because it sent “another reassuring signal to whites,” and speaking with a precision that led him to be described as very …show more content…

This long quote tells that people are forced to cover their characteristics and identities by social pressure. People’s different appearances and behaves gain total difference of responses. Being praised as the “best-dressed man” at the company, is the way Mungin was respected by trying to give a “good black” images. However, without the cover—the suit on him made his neighbor feel unsafe because Mungin might be a “bad black”. Social influences are the key reasons causing people cover. We, as human beings, cannot live alone; getting along with others is the only way to survive. We can’t help listening to other’s thinking, caring about other’s feeling and being afraid of being judged. In Mungin’s case, in order to be treated normally in his company, he worn proper attire and spoke clearly. This phenomenon can be extended on so many people: their environments must give them some pressure to some extends to cover themselves. Our behaviors and identities don’t work for ourselves anymore, but for a performance to please others. Observing people dealing with social technology is another way to analyze how people make themselves into a performed life. In Turkle’s essay, she states that people become less authentic when we use social technology to cover our

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