Sexual Orientation And Sexual Identity

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I chose to write about this specific question because I clearly remember recognizing my sexual orientation before accepting my sexual identity. As early as the second grade, I remember acquiring an “interest” in females that was not exhibited by my male peers. This interest was definitely not sexual in nature or anything I would deem developmentally inappropriate, but I remember suddenly developing this attraction toward females that I did not necessarily understand at this age. Since my peers did not seem to overtly share this interest, I chose to keep these feelings to myself, however. I remember wondering if something might be wrong with me actually. I knew it was okay for adults to feel attracted to others and have romantic partners, but …show more content…

Do these individuals ever accept that what their feeling is “okay” by receiving any form of validation from their peers like I eventually did? I would suspect that they do not, and especially not in the way that I did at least. I would expect that they have a lot more challenges with accepting and recognizing both their sexual orientation and sexual identity. I know that I temporarily had minor struggles with these issues, but I literally cannot fathom how challenging it would be to confront these issues if I were to have experienced feelings that deviated from my male peers. From my early experiences in early elementary school, it seemed like young girls and boys valued uniformity in peer groups. I guess this never really changes too much as individuals progress through their high school years, but different cliques emerge as individuals progress through their schooling. I think these cliques may allow for individuals to express their feelings in a much less critical environment. Therefore, individuals are more apt to express themselves alongside the emergence of these cliques, which could possibly offer an environment for non-heterosexuals to receive more positive sanctions for anything that may represent deviations from the majority. Nonetheless, I would imagine that it would be extremely challenging for …show more content…

I am glad that this question forced me to do so because I feel like these considerations have made me more sensitive to the challenges and opposition that could be faced by individuals that do not develop feelings for the opposite sex like I did. I will probably never know the extent of the challenges faced by these individuals or even begin to fully understand how challenging these paths truly are. I know realize that it would take an extremely brave and courageous individual to express any deviations from the majority during the years in grade school. I feel like writing this response has increased my sensitivity for these individuals and hope to use this to better help others confront their struggles with expressing, accepting, and experiencing sexual orientations that are not

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